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Q: My teacher keeps calling me "Satan" what should I do?
When I asked him about why he called me Satan he told me it was because he thinks that I am evil inside and deceitful. I know that I am not a perfect person ,but I strive to be a good Christian when he called me this name I feel discouraged. But one of the biggest reasons that this title " Satan" hurts more is because I truly look up to this person, he is my favorite teacher by him calling me this name, it makes me feel that he does not like me. What should I do?
tell him. that he not the judge and that God is only judge for judgement day..

Q: Lately i have been stressed out on what career I want to be when I grow up, I am only a junior in high school. Sometimes I want to be a doctor, but in reality I only want to be a doctor because they look cool on television( grey's anatomy), so I can get attention for my elders, and it has a lot of money. At first everything was cool, in fact I was able to watch a surgeon perform surgery in person, but I did not feel anything- no true excitement or happiness. But now all of my elders( adults ) are saying I have a great personality to be a doctor, but what if I just do not want to be a doctor anymore, I only wanted to be one for the moment not for the long run ! In addition, I stressed out with school work. I totally burnt out, since the tenth grade so I have been having trouble with doing my work, I do not know what to do to boost myself up again. Lastly, I have been stressed out in French, even though I am one of the smartest ones there, so I dropped French for next year but I do not know if it was right to drop it. It is hard to deal with stress when you have no one you can talk about it with, someone who can be unbiased about these things. My mom would be biased, my sister wouldn't care, my dad is not easy to talk to, I do not have friends only associates so I am not comfortable to say anything, my french teacher is apathetic towards me--I am honestly lost, what can I do?
Be good time to really think about what you want to do. now and days it takes a lot of schooling and collages to get the place you want.. I regret not studying hard enough for i wanted to be in high school or yet before high school but there are some change there mind and that okay. just find what will make you happy and what not. and french i don't see why not. do what make you happy and that life is more important then school stuff. hope i help

Q: i am 18 years old,my girlfriend is 16... we have been together for 9 months now... on july 27th we decided to start having unprotected sex..since then we have had sex on Aug 4th,22nd,26th and now sept 5th and 6th ... she found out she was pergnant last month.. and she is in denials of keeping the baby ratherless telling her mom.. i love her soo much but i really won't like her to kill the baby.. even if its now forming... what should we do...
I don't believe God would like it... if she want give up the baby for adoption she can. but killing it not a good idea. it be like killing jesus when he was born with marry

Q: 16/f
I have this really good friend.She and I go way back and have understood each other always.But since last year she changed completely.She always talks,never shuts up for a minute.Also what annoys me-I am not mean here but truth is she isn't pretty at all,her body is ok but her face is really ugly and she goes on and on and on about how boys swoon over her and how where ever she goes someone asks her to be with them and that everyone looks at her.All I've seen is that boys look at her with sort of disgust or that they don't look at her at all.Again,I'm not immodest or full of myself but I'm much prettier than her,and she's had so many boyfriends while I haven't had one for ages.But that could be because I won't be with just anyone who asks me out like she does.Her appearance doesn't bother me,I love her for who she is,she is so good and honest and everything but when she starts talking and talking about what I just said it makes me go mad and smack her in the face just so she can shut up.She really doesn't know when to stop.And when some cute guy looks at me instead of her she says omg did you see how he just looked at me when it's clear he was looking at me.She lives in an illusion.I don't want to hurt her,but how do I tell her to get a grip and gt her own life,not try to live mine?
Well Sound like a Teenage Stage.. Maybe try talking to her and joke you read to much magaznes or what going on tv. i notice now and days that teens shows are kinda getting worst. maybe just try be there and be her freind and don't try shut her out. just ask her if she let you talk and let you know how you feel and ask her not to be mad and if she a true freind she would truly listen to you. hope i help. if i didn't sorry least i tr

Q: 16/f
I really don't know what's going on.Have all the boys gone blind?I am sick and tired of being alone.And no guy notices me or if he does it's usually a jerk.I've become a jerk magnet.I don't see why it's like this.I am good-looking and smart,I think I should attract good-looking guys...not just that but every guy I've been with ended up cheating on me with an UGLY girl.When I say ugly I mean it.I am not cocky,I just love myself.So don't tell me I'm arrogant.I am also very friendly and approachable,but love just seems to avoid me.I see my girl friends around,happy with their boyfriends in long relationships and I just can't seem to find a good guy for myself.I want a guy who treats me sweet and loving.On the contrary,I got all but that...I know I have a lot of time but I feel like my love life is ruined for good.Are all the boys my age and a few years older he same? I don't have the strength to look for love anymore,since it seems to me they only want sex...
sometimes the good guys are the ones want you to make the first move. sometimes the nice one are the one always get rejected. Sorry to say thins not all guys who have good looks are doing be good. because they seem to be more in to there self. let love find you.
hope i help if i didn't sorry don't leave me bad comment and be mad about it. i just try to help.

Q: there is a guy in my school and when ever we talk he looks deep in my eyes and sometime at my lips what does it means

Sometimes Guys Like make eye contact and maybe want to read your lips. don't read in to much unless you really he likes you. if he keep talking and try get you talk to him a lot mean try to get know more about you. if your interested maybe you make the first move guys like that. ask him you like to see a movie sometimes

Q: This is very much like the other question i asked about what order i should read the following batman graphics novels, now im am wondering what order i should read the superman novels in but since i dont know which ones are the best to get and in what order. so this is my question, which in your opinion are the best superman graphic novels out there and in what order should i read them cause i want to experience reading them in order without missing anything important thanks for you replys :)
s i did answer that wrong question one belove or above you guess my mouse keep running off on me lol and i read you question wish i can help.

Q: I am a 15/M. I have been very thin and weak since my birth. I had seen many doctors regarding this matter but they say that everything is fine. But i feel very lethargic and weak. I have taken many weight gainers, but they didn't prove to be useful. I feel very hungry, even if i had just eaten. It feels like i have not eaten anything.
Check out some health books or try find a Doctor,
I am 25 years old and I not gain weight since i was 15. I weight maybe 95 and 100. if your from Ohio call children hospital or find your birth doctors.

Q: for the past 2 1/2 weeks, i've been a total mess. especially at school, any little thing will set me off. i'll get really pissed off, yell at people, and today i hit my friend in the face and he cut his lip. i'm walking around just hating everything and everyone, wishing everything would just go away. i'd been eating a lot more than usual, but then today i wasn't hungry at all. not only am i mad, i'm sad. someone will say or do something that'll make me sad. i've been crying uncontrollably a lot. today during one class, i had to sniff back tears at least 5 times. i have no idea whats going on with me. nothing is wrong at my house. my grades are starting to suffer because of it. its like i'm either depressed or angry all the time. i'm mean to everyone and driving away all my friends and my boyfriend. but at the time when i'm pissing off someone, i'm trying to. i want them to leave. but then later i'll feel bad and hate myself.

i've been depressed before, but this is different. its a lot worse. i'm also thinking about suicide or running away. but, again, i have no idea where these moods or thoughts came from. nothing is wrong, but everything is wrong. can someone help?
Do you love your mom and dad? and how you know your parents are real? plus how you think we got here? God is real and where you think you go if God wasn't? i don't think there be a God not take us a beter place in this world. it hurt me when i see people says they don't belive in God that means God feelings be hurt. becouse God created you. only problem you have is that you not give God a chance. chance help you find your talent. put your big pant on and grow up we didn't ment stay as a kid forever. you know we ment to grow and learn.. so please try

Q: I have decided I'd like to end my life. I have been without a job for 6 months and no longer have funds left. Nobody can help me and I feel that I am just wasting space at this time. There are no jobs available for me. I feel pathetic and alone. This weekend I will be left home alone when my roommate goes to spend the weekend with her parents in another state. What are some fast, easy ways to commit suicide? I'd like to this at home, peacefully, so that less people will have to see the body in the end. I'd like something that isn't too messy, if possible, but is fairly painless. Suicide tips? Thank you very very very much.
Well if you do something that some belive you will not go to heaven. God hase great plants for you and maybe not now and tommrow. you need get online or look in your yellow pages and start calling to get a job and yet put your self together. and reason you still on earth becouse God got great plans for you and you do not want waste your life away like and that. it not good. look i been out of school since 2005 and i live at home with my parents and i waited 3 years so far what i want todo. now i have a boyfreind and i maybe don't have a job maybe God not want me to do earthy things maybe i sould go out and tell people about God or something like that. and right now Read the bible and read it and it will guide you or if you dont' like reading get on online listen bible online. please don't doubt GOD. he loves you and if you ever need somone talk to you can Email me and littlebutterfly005@gmail.com and my boyfreind help you any way we can. but please don't doubt your self make a goails of things you like todo and maybe try new things.
don't give up on GOD

Q: 13/f
i have this one guy in four of my classes and hes so sweet and funny but i think he likes me and i just wanna be friends cuz i like this other guy...so i dont want to send him the wrong message but how do i let him know i wanna be just friends?
Sorry But guys do hate the friend word. Just keep treating him like a freind. maybe kinda bring up other guy and maybe it make him relize you like other guys and not all the time and say that sometimes you want to enjoy being freind with somone and getting to know them and yet being young and want focus on school and other things what you want todo before having a boyfreind. frist thing is I do know that guys do hate word I just like to be friends and he never talk to you again. depend on a guy. don't be to freindly and don't just please him all the time. just be your seslf and he ever ask you out or be his gf just say your not ready for Realiship.

Q: I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!
what are kind of stuff that he putting on there? Frist you want to Make up your own facebook Name and everything and try join and make sure he not putting any Pictures (bad) of you or he is sexing or putting things on there about what you two do. then tell him that he not be trusted and that souldn't put you guys personal private life from you. but remeber what you don't God will know and deal with him.
Have a talk with him and let him know that lieing get you in trouble and that you can't be in a Relationship if he can't be honest and putting your private stuff on FB.
I hope I help and sorry I didn't help much.
Butterfly

Q: What things can I do to intimidate my enemy at school?
if you don't belove in God? then do you belove you have parents?

Q: how can you grow your hair faster
eat alot of chicken and penutubutter

Q: Ok, so I am in desperate need of a new screen name. I am having a lot of trouble deciding what to do. If you could, please help me! I love playing guitar and singing. My names is Danielle. I need a reallly cute screen name, but not to cheesy! Please help!
DancingChick
MusicLover
ChickaGirl
RockinGirl
WhildGuitar
singthebeat
GuitarAngel
Songofaangel
singlikeaangel
dancingstar

Q: How do i make my friend jealous?
Please dont tell me how immarure and wrong it is. I want actual answers
God don't like that. Jealous is not a good thing and i know your not want this answer but hey let me tell you. if you treat your friend like that then you think your freind ever trust you again? or yet you are being judge if you try make somone jealous and your self even more. so please leave your freind alone and it not right be that way.
If you don't like this answer that is fine just letting you know near future you sould ask god for forgiven for that sin of judge you made. anyway good luck becouse if you do things like that Karma come back to you. I been there and done that and you don' want Krama or word DRAMA. so stay out of it and live tommrow like it your last day

Q: I feel pressured like i need to go to college just
because everyone elese goes whenever someone talks
about it or asks me if i go it upsets me i try to not let it happen but it does the only thing that is stopping me from going is i don't have my license yet...i feel like i should be doing more then i am


Any thoughts or suggestions?

Thank you(:
Not everyone goes to collage. some go becouse what they want in there mayjore or job. soemtimes it take alot to learn before like if somone going to be a nurse or a doctore or anything. you can do what you want and want you want todo in your life. collage is like highschool but there more.
It nothing wrong with getting a job and start living a life and maybe frist goal you can do is get your driver card. and don't worry about everyone one else. god hase great plans for you and that plan is just for you. not for you to follow everyone else. if you go to collage there alot more hard work and there can be drama with roomates and sometimes I hard it be stressful but I know it probly be best thing to do is have a great job out there.. it up to you. what you need todo is find out what you want todo in your life and what is that your look forward too. ready for adulthood or need more time?
Talk with your parents or teacher or somone you can trust. but dont follow the crowd.
don't worry about what others think.
Hope I help

Q: so in the dreamme and my bff got kidnapped and they were trying to rape us then she just said "what ever im just gonna do it" when they tried on her sumbody finally caught them ,they were put in jail and we were safe...

can somebody explain this dream to me.
Dreams are not real but there are evil out there can tempt you. are you seem worry what you hear on news or what you hard or think about alot..
dreams are things you hard or seen or things your mind think about.

Q: 19/m

Okay so I'm part of a difficult relationship, in that I rarely get the chance to see my girlfriend. The problem here is that she is basically ALL I think about. Nothing else seems to matter to me as much as she does, to the point where I'm losing focus in school. I'm helplessly in love with her, but at the same time I can't just forget about my education. We've talked about it, and shes going through the same thing. We want to be with each other so much so that its beginning to interfere with other things. What should we do?
Education dose come frist then you guys will have rest of time together. Maybe pick onece a week see a movie or just hang out play a game or to. talk on the phone for 15 min every night before you guys go to bed.
you don't spend to much time together lol. I do have a bf and he giong school and need to study and dose hang out with me but sometiems he have hard time in school not enough studing i do understnad. and i know he paid alot money go. so i am sure she understand you guys stay Postive and maybe you guys study the bible together something different and new you guys can do that hase to do with more then Education. is learning the bible and god. that both of you guys can do. that what me and my bf doing.
hope i help

Q: How do you know to trust somebody? Im seemingly losing all trust in people. My best friend seems to be hiding things from me, people around me are cheating, lying to one another, scheming. I just dont know who or what to people? Why are people so private yet so seemingly open. Or why are they two faced? And how do we know who to trust with our own secrets? I seem to be losing all control over my trust, its just not there in so many cases I don't really know what to do. So many people are telling me not to always be so naive? But what kind of relationship can you have with someone if you don't trust them? Please some one help me with this... What is trust and when should it be given if at all? Who can we truly trust?
All you have to do is Trust God.. You can't Rely on your family and freinds. I been there and You know something sometimes a freind maybe dont want hurt your feelings or they think it not that important to tell you. or be something they don't want hear again or bring it up. if you think your friend being un truth ful then you dont' want be around that person. only person we can do is trust god and if that freind not being your friend must not know god. or sometimeees you need stay postive and don't let devil mess with your head. i know how you feel in some way. but keep your chin up and wait untill you find the truth or if you find out and then you know that truth. don't question or don't do anything till they get busted then you know.
remeber Trust god and maybe have a bibile study with your freinds and talk to them about how god knows what they are doing and sometimes there alot in bible talk about trust and hiding stuff. hope i help
amanda

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