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leading him on wrong
13/f
i have this one guy in four of my classes and hes so sweet and funny but i think he likes me and i just wanna be friends cuz i like this other guy...so i dont want to send him the wrong message but how do i let him know i wanna be just friends?
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Sticky situation I see...
Boys don't adjust well to the 'friend' concept. You may be flirting with him and not even know it. Just let him know you are friends. Hint around. "I am so happy we are friends, any friends of yours that you could hook me up with?!" Along the same lines as the person below me said, not taking the credit for that one. Try not to make physical contact and try to work with different people other than him if given the option to work with someone in the classes you have him in. Good Luck!
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Just don't flirt, spend too much time with him, or hug him or have a lot of physical contact, don't talk to him too much or be too friendly with him, because guys most of the time take friendliness the wrong way. And let him know like "hey buddy.." Or i'm glad we are Friends so you can hook me up with your buddies or just jokes like that, to let him know that you are not interested in specifically him lol!:] This has happened to me before and this seems to work for me. Good luck-SandyDandy(:
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Sorry But guys do hate the friend word. Just keep treating him like a freind. maybe kinda bring up other guy and maybe it make him relize you like other guys and not all the time and say that sometimes you want to enjoy being freind with somone and getting to know them and yet being young and want focus on school and other things what you want todo before having a boyfreind. frist thing is I do know that guys do hate word I just like to be friends and he never talk to you again. depend on a guy. don't be to freindly and don't just please him all the time. just be your seslf and he ever ask you out or be his gf just say your not ready for Realiship.
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Hey there,
If he is sweet, he sounds like he would understand if you told him "you are a great person, and I would like to be friends with you for a long time". This lets him know that you do like him, you do want to be friends, and that you respect his feelings so you don't want to complicate anything for him. If he hasn't made a move on you yet, no need to tell him that you just want to be friends, but if he has, just tell him nicely and everything should go well <3
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