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1) I'm theatrical (Dance, sing, and act)
2) I'm Christian (Lutheran)
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4) I base my advice off past expiriences (Many of which are embarrasing)
Gender: Female
Location: Iowa
Member Since: March 28, 2009
Answers: 7
Last Update: April 1, 2009
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All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!! (link)
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If you really value you her as a friend, tell her to back off. Tell her how much it hurts you and she needs to keep her thoughts to herself. If she refuses, distance yourself from her.
Oh, and talk with your boyfriend. Make sure he knows all of the craziness going down so he won't believe all of her lies :)
Hope that helps,
JK
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Hi, i am 17 going on 18 and i have another question that i need help with i get bumps on the back of my legs after i shave sometimes there like pimples or white heads and how do i get rid of them they are very iratating and they make me feel like every1 sees them and points out at them saying ew thats gross and i hate that feeling but yet they pry really are so does anyone know how to get rid of them? (link)
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No worries. It's just razor burn. Everyone gets it. To prevent this, make sure you're shaving with water and a shaving gel, preferably a moisturizing one. Or, better yet, take a bath, let your legs soak, then lather up and shave.
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i need to make my crush laugh
....jokes non perverted or mean
btw im a girl~ (link)
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Okay. This will make you seem dumb at first, but it's hilarious!
Start out by telling him you have two stories and say that if the first doesn't make him laugh, the second will.
Story #1
Two guys are walking down a road when they come across a red brick. One says to the other, 'Betcha fifty bucks I can throw it up and it won't come back down.' He takes the bet. Brick goes up, down, and the guy pays $50. They keep walking and come across a yellow brick. Same thing: 'Betcha $50 I can throw it up and it won't come back down' Guy takes bet. Brick goes up, down, and the guy pays $50. They keep walking when they come across a green brick. "Betcha $200 I can throw it up and it won't come back down." Guy takes the bet. Brick goes up, never comes down, so the guy gets $200.
End of story.
At this point, he'll be like, 'What the heck?!' So tell him the next one.
Story #2
A man and a woman are in an airplane. The man is smoking and the woman has her pet chiuahah on her lap. She says, 'Sir, you're not supposed to be smoking.'
He blows smoke in her face and says, 'whatever.' She says, 'If you don't stop, I'll sic Fifi on you!' He says, 'Whatever'
She does, and Fifi goes crazy, ripping his clothes. He says, 'What the heck, Lady?!'
She says, 'If you don't stop, I'm throwing your cigarette out the window!' To which he replies, 'If you do that, I'm throwing your dog out the window!' She takes his cigarette, throws it out the window. He takes her dog and throws it out the window. They both sit fuming for half an hour until they look out the window and see Fifi sitting on the wing of the plane. Guess what's in Fifi's mouth?
To which, he'll probably say, 'The cigarette, right?'
Then you say, 'NO! The green brick!'
Hahhahaha. I love that joke. It takes a while to tell though, so make sure you have the time. It's a gar-un-teed winner!
Hope that helps,
JK
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i am trying out for kickline at the end of april and i just need some advice on how to do well because i really want to make it!!
thanks!
=] (link)
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I enjoy making list answers, so, here's a perfect opprotunity for one!
1) Practice like crazy! If you get the routine and music ahead of time, take it home each night and work through it untill you're confident.
2) Stretch before every practice. You don't want to pull something right before tryouts!
3) From the title of 'Kickline' I'm going to assume there are going to be a lot of kick, lol. Make sure you practice good technique in practicing them, keeping BOTH knees straight, having the correct turnout, and pointing your toes are the big ones.
4) Practice your smile in the mirror. Dumb, I know, but that way, if you get nervous, you can just plaster on your perfect smile and no one will know the difference!
5) Ask more expirienced members for help if you need it. Most would be pretty nice and flattered if you asked for help.
6) Accept the outcome with grace, no matter if you make it or no. If you have a hissy fit, you're less likely to get on in future years.
If you want any more help, feel free to message me!
Hope that helps,
JK
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ok i'm 18 and he's 19, we dated for two years and really loved each other a lot. we'd never felt that way about anyone before, were completely in love, even talked about getting engaged and married and everything. well, we had some problems, and between those and the stress in each of our own lives, we broke up a few weeks ago. he said then and now that he still wants to get back with me in the future and still wants to marry me, but he just needs some time to himself right now. at first, yeah i was really torn up and so hurt and felt like everything was my fault and all i wanted was him back. but after about a week, i've been pretty much fine. it's weird not having him around and having someone always there, but i'm not upset anymore. i dont think i'll ever find anyone else like him and that kind of hurts, and after all the trouble i dont even really think it's worth it to get back together, but why am i not hurting? for being together nearly two years, i thought it would take me months to get over him, so why was it like a week? seriously what's going on? usually i'm the type that does take a long time to get over someone, so why is it different with my first & true love? i really don't hurt anymore, i dont even know if i want him back.. i didn't expect that? i know i loved him... so what the heck? is this weird? i'm not in denial or avoiding the subject or anything, so i'm really confused. (link)
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I'm no psyciarist (I can't even spell the word!) But I'd say, no, you're not weird/crazy. It's odd the way the heart works, sometimes agonizing over a crush, and other times letting a loved one go. My assumption is either A) You realize that you still love each other, and probably WILL go on to be married some day, so you're not fretting now, or B) You knew all along, deep down, that this would probably come to be or even C) You know there is work to be done, and you're not letting yourself dwell on the past.
Any situation is weird to think about because generally, those are sub-concious thoughts. And it's great that you're past the emotional wreck stage so soon! Less money spent on chocolate and tissues, eh? ;)
If you need any more help, feel free to message me.
Hope that helps!
JK
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I really like this guy but he has no idea who I am. My best guy friend is BFFs with him and he told him that I liked him by name. But he didn't exactly combine me with the name so he still doesn't know me. Anyways, how do I get him to notice me. He is a grade older than me so we have no classes. Any advice is appreciated! (link)
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Step One: 'Bump' into him in the hallway. (You can totally plan this one out with friends to make it look real)
Step Two: The next time you see him, say hi, wave, and look away shyly. He'll want to know why you looked away.
Step Three: Actually TALK to him. This may be the hardest part. Try to have your conversation planned ahead of time. As in, casually see him in the lunch line, make a joke about the food, and introduce yourself.
Tada! Now he know's who you are. Keep talking to him in larger and larger intervals. If he fits your face to your name, great! He know's you like him! If not, that's great too! This way, you can start over, in a way, and really get to know each other.
If you need anything else, feel free to message me :)
Hope that helps,
JK
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lol?? Ugg...yes I am in love with my best guy friend. Umm...I am 13.. were both in 7th grade...I know it not REALLY love..it just feels like it. Umm.. we met last year...umm...I had a crush on him last year...and he found out by my blabber mouth friends!! lol Umm...I think it freaked him out. I didn't want my friends to ask him out. Like, my friend Samantha is Tanner's cousin...she introduced me the first day last year. So...she was siked to know I liked him so she asked him out. He said no..umm...so I didn't ask him out again...but my friends kept doing IT! So...he got fed up with it...and I left him alone...so we were just friends. Now, this year...I fell for someone else...he selfishly broke my heart. So...I just realized...that Tanner always had my back.. and I really want to be his girl friend. He's not a jurk...he's a great guy. He already found out that I liked him... because I had this issue...with my friend..she likes Tanner 2 ...and I HEARD that she only likes him because she wants 2 make me jealuous....she told me she never said that ...so I gave her another chance, but the note I wrote her I told her that I really cared about Tanner and I am not going to let her hurt him. I was worried because my friend dates a guy than breaks up with him after about 2 or 3 days. I don't want her to hurt him. Well...Tanner read that note...so now he knows...I like him again...well... I don't know if he feels the same way...I want him to ask me out. I asked my friend Cody to try to persuade him...lol he's tanners friend 2 and there really close...
Can someone help me out?? I really like him.. so much. What can I do to get him to like me back ...in that way?? Please...don't be rude..
Thanks for helping... I'll rate fair. :) (link)
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My best advice here would be to talk to him straight up, face to face. I think the main problem here was there was too much, 'He said, she said' going on. Even though it sounds scary, when you two are physically talking, he can't back away or have some friend give you a silly answer.
I'd guess that, if you do talk with him, you'll be pretty nervous. Don't be, he's just a dude ;) Smile, and chat about randomness for a bit, like school. Then actually ask him about his feelings for you, such as, "Hey, well, I guess you probably know by now that I like you, and I was wondering what you felt for me?" Many guys find it attractive when a girl is upfront.
If you need any thing else, feel free to message me.
Hope That Helps,
JK
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