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Ugg... I am in love with my best friend...
lol?? Ugg...yes I am in love with my best guy friend. Umm...I am 13.. were both in 7th grade...I know it not REALLY love..it just feels like it. Umm.. we met last year...umm...I had a crush on him last year...and he found out by my blabber mouth friends!! lol Umm...I think it freaked him out. I didn't want my friends to ask him out. Like, my friend Samantha is Tanner's cousin...she introduced me the first day last year. So...she was siked to know I liked him so she asked him out. He said no..umm...so I didn't ask him out again...but my friends kept doing IT! So...he got fed up with it...and I left him alone...so we were just friends. Now, this year...I fell for someone else...he selfishly broke my heart. So...I just realized...that Tanner always had my back.. and I really want to be his girl friend. He's not a jurk...he's a great guy. He already found out that I liked him... because I had this issue...with my friend..she likes Tanner 2 ...and I HEARD that she only likes him because she wants 2 make me jealuous....she told me she never said that ...so I gave her another chance, but the note I wrote her I told her that I really cared about Tanner and I am not going to let her hurt him. I was worried because my friend dates a guy than breaks up with him after about 2 or 3 days. I don't want her to hurt him. Well...Tanner read that note...so now he knows...I like him again...well... I don't know if he feels the same way...I want him to ask me out. I asked my friend Cody to try to persuade him...lol he's tanners friend 2 and there really close...
Can someone help me out?? I really like him.. so much. What can I do to get him to like me back ...in that way?? Please...don't be rude..
Thanks for helping... I'll rate fair. :)
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My best advice here would be to talk to him straight up, face to face. I think the main problem here was there was too much, 'He said, she said' going on. Even though it sounds scary, when you two are physically talking, he can't back away or have some friend give you a silly answer.
I'd guess that, if you do talk with him, you'll be pretty nervous. Don't be, he's just a dude ;) Smile, and chat about randomness for a bit, like school. Then actually ask him about his feelings for you, such as, "Hey, well, I guess you probably know by now that I like you, and I was wondering what you felt for me?" Many guys find it attractive when a girl is upfront.
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Sounds like you ike him a lot. As much as I hate to say it and as hard as it's going to be for you to read it he may not like you. That's not something you or his friends can control. All you can do is accept it. I know thats hard but with time you will move on if it doesn't work out with him. I know this isn't the answer you want to hear and I am sorry you have to hear it but that seems to be the only solution to this.
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This is a tough situation.
I'm glad he read the note because he at least knows not to date your friend...unless he wants to get hurt.
Anyway..I think you should let him know how much you care. Tell him exactly why you like him to and tell him how good of a girlfriend you will be.
Even if he does end up dating your friend...when she hurts him you will be the one there to help him...you will be his shoulder to cry on...and he would love you for that.
So if he's gonna date her that's what I think you should think about. But who knows... he might choose you this time.
Hope I helped :)
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