Getting to know her. things to ask. how to get started?!
Question Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:11 pm
ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.
well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored :/" iv asked about hobbies, her job, the people im freinds with who she works with, and a couple of other things. i want to start a conversation or at least get a few good questions going to spark one... i want to get to know her because shes been showing interest more and more and i dont want to seem like an uncaring ass.
you'v not failed me before i look forward to your answer's
inevitable_pain16 answered Thursday December 10 2009, 11:22 am: I know where u are coming from b/c i am in a relationship that we tend to run out of things to talk about, so man, you just have to really think randomly. ask her about her childhood, or longest relationship and tell her you bet that you can out last that one. What is something she wishes to do before she dies or what is something she has never told anyone. stuff like that i promise more will pop up in your head on the way. [ inevitable_pain16's advice column | Ask inevitable_pain16 A Question ]
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