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Is she too young for me?
I am a 19 year old guy who has fallen for a 16 year old girl. It is a bit strange of a situation but I really do love her. She is amazing and beautiful. I would do anything on earth to help her or to make her happy. We are not officially BF/GF, I think we are both holding ourselves back, for fear of what it would mean. I know she loves me, I don't know to what extent. I can't seem to find a good way to ask/find out either. I have never really had a girlfriend before her, although I was always very observant of others and feel I know most of what I need to about relationships. She was outgoing and I was shy so we kinda met in the middle. We fit each other very well, have a lot of the same beliefs, ect. But the fact that she is still 16 really bothers me. It's not like I want to have sex or anything, I do not agree with premarital sex, I just worry about legal things. I hate to say it but, I almost feel guilty for dating her. Like I don't deserve such a wonderful person. What is everyone's take on this?
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if you really love her, then i dont think that there is anything wrong with that. but its only 3 age year defference too and thats not bad. i dated a guy that is 19 and im 14 so that is badd. (:
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im 16 and my boyfriends 19 turning 20 in october. i dont think there is anythin wrong with it at all, sexual or not. love is love, no matter what gender, age or color. if you guys are worried about her parents, talk to them! get them to like you. id leave my boyfriend alone with my parents to talk to them and they ended up lovin him!
GO FOR IT! because you might not find someone like this again...
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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Thats only 3 years age difference, are her parents ok with it. If they are I say go for it. I have seen way worse than that this girl i went to school with is now 19 and she married a 40 year old. There was this 22 year old and 14 year old. (ick), that didnt last to long. It sounds like you do really like her but your right dont move in fast cuz sixteen year olds are pretty vulnerable and it could upset her badly, but also don't push her away either. Just have a normal relationship and see how things go. And you have to ask her how she feels about you there will never be anything there if you are afraid to talk to eachother, just sit down with her and tell her how you feel about her and ask her what her feelings are... that may give her quite a bit respect for you, whatever you do don't get to cheesy and say you would die for her and stuff like that, that might scare her away. well good luck
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