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im a stupid loser!
ok well i am head over heels for my ex. i really and truly love him. but i broke up with him cuz i thought i liked another guy. im going out with him now, but after the dance last night, im pretty sure im not gonna like the relationship. my ex is completely in love with me still. what should i do? the new guy would be crushed. i havent even told my ex i had a new boyfriend. im such a stupid loser! argh!
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Just tell the new guy you wanna be friends & ask your ex back out. Tell him you made a mistake & you still love him.
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I had the same problem. I broke up with a guy, he still loved me, I changed my mind && we went back out, ya well that happened 3 times to me. Well heres the thing: You hurt your ex, then your gonna hurt this new guy. Im not saying not to do it. I mean, it seems to me either way you should break up with your new guy. If you know you dont like him, then it has to end. You cant stay with him just so you wont hurt him! So first, think about this from your exs point of view. Think about how you hurt him. You have to understand that if he really loves you, he was crushed when you broke up with him. Next think about how you will feel when you are with him again. Will you feel happy & be in love, or will you change your mind again? Once you have got all this figured out, go for it! You said you dont like your new guy, so break up with (gently of course) and then talk to your ex. And do this before your ex moves on && finds someone who wont hurt him. Im telling you this because I have personal experience with this. from not to long ago in fact!
-Hope I helped!
Linsay!
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