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being in love as a teenager?
i'd like people's opinions- do you believe that it's possible for two teenagers to fall in love? i'm 16/f and he's 17/m. this is our relationship in (very small) nutshell:
we talk about everything. we care about each other to the deepest, most loving extent possible. i don't see other guys [friends, random guys] in the same way i used to. neither of us would ever do anything to hurt the other [emotionally & physically, for that matter.] and anytime either of us even suspects something is wrong [which has only happened twice], we bring it up and talk through it. he makes me genuinely happy- the happiest i've ever been in my life. i'm constantly in a state of bliss when i'm with him, no matter what we're doing or what's going on. we've been dating a year and almost seven months. i can honestly see marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him. no words can describe how much i love him.
i'm sure i'm forgetting other things. but anyway- in love? or just a "teenage love"? [in your opinion. of course, my opinion is the former, haha.] thanks in advance (:
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I think its definitely a posibility that you guys are in love. But you two are the only ones that can know for sure. And I 100% believe that teen love can be accomplished. I was in love before (and I am a teen). We were together for quite a long time and we had the type of love that it seems like you're describing.
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I think it's love. The way I see it, a lot of adults wish they could find someone and be happy like you and your boyfriend are. don't do anything drastic... if it's love, it can wait a couple years til you can be completely together. <3
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well, in my opinion, you got that young Love. it sounds like you guys are really meant to be. good luck with your relationship.<3
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I honestly dont think you have to be a certain age to fall in love. I mean, theres no limits to your feelings. Love isnt a maybe thing, if your in love you will know it, you will be able to say im in love without any doubts
-Hope I helped
Linsay
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Yes I strongly believe its possibly for two teenagers to fall in love!!!
I am a teenager myself, I'm 18 years old! My boyfriend who is 20 and I have been going out for nearly two years! We are looking for a house together and like you talk about everything and yes we both have talked about marrying each other.
Love is something so special that forms between two people, once you have it you never want to let it go!
It doesn't matter what age you are.. people fall in love when their ready! Everything happens for a reason and there is a somebody out there for every someone.
You two may only be young, so are my boyfriend and I.. but if you love each other as much as you say you do, never let each other go! Even if no one else agree's because you are young. Its your choice!
I wish you two the best of luck! xoxo
oh and P.S my boyfriends friend has been with his high school sweetheart since they were 16, they both are now 23, married and have had a baby girl!
So it's definitely possible!
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It doesn't matter how old you are to fall in love! In my mind, you have to really believe in the feelings you get when you fall in love & not be cynical to ever experience falling in love with somebody. I mean, who knows? You could be 12 years old and fall in love. Not a very likely story (obviously), but anything can happen. But no one can really tell you whether you're in love or not. It's not just something like..."Maybe I'm in love." It's instinct. You just know when you're in love! And I've heard it's the most incredible feeling anyone can get. In some cases there is a difference in teenage love & falling in love but who says you aren't falling in love as a teen? Follow your heart, because your heart is the only thing that can tell you, you're in love. "Trust with your heart, & not your mind."
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Its all subjective, really.
Generally speaking, I don't think love can exist between two minors. However, there are exceptions to a lot of rules, so I don't doubt that this could be an exception. I mean if you feel that you have a strong emotional connection with him beyond any connection with any other guy you've been with or known, then I guess you could say that you love him.
And since you only gave your relationship in a nutshell, that means only you and him know everything about it.
So what I'm trying to say is that yes, there is a possibility that you love each other, but its really your responsibility to decide that =]
Hope I helped
--Jack
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i would call it love..If you see him and you sharing the rest of your life together then its love because alot of teens dont even think about how there future would actually be with a guy.
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yes infact i have been in love i was 16 and he was 18, first love ever. Although you may not stay together forever, some teens acually continue to date their high school sweetheart and eventually get married, i however was not so fortunate. But, i wish you and yours the best of luck and happiness, it sounds like you guys truely have something special.
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