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different schools, different friends ?
hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me?
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Well I moved schools recently well ((like forever ago butt?)) anyways,
I know where you are comming from. .
Whenn I was like in 4th grade i switched schools, I didnt know anyone and felt like such an outcast.
Then I just was like "whats with me? Get out there and make some friends" just talk to your self in your head and just tell your self to move on from your old friends.
You mght never be very popular in your new school but you wont be such an out cast anymore.
just become out going have a party as soon as you meet BUNCHES of people and invite everyone!
Hope I helped
Best of luck
KaTiE! ;)
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Join a club,make an effort to hang out or atleast try to get to know the people they met,so on.
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I've been there and its gotten better over the days. I started to join some clubs and after i met people who liked the same thing as me and after i became -as one can say- "popular" give it time and express to your friends that you feel excluted -i know you tried but tell them that but tell them that they stop after a week- dont try to be popular...let it come apon you.
HOPED I HELPED
♥ Fl@gg@l
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join a club or sumthin that your good at (dancing? basketball?) and then youll meet people hoo like the same things you do! and even if you dont become best friends with these people, youll find a new hobby to becum obsessed with
need anythin else? lemme no!
xo
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