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I feel CHEAP!!!
I've been dating one of my really good guy friends for a few weeks and we have a really tyte realtionship. So he told my friend that hes buying me like $20 worth of stuff for Christmas. My mom thinks we should've waited a little longer to start going out.. so she doesn't know we are. So therefore, I couldn't get him anything more than a "just friends gift". Which is some cookies and a little novelty thing (a whiteboard that hangs from your doorknob?!--mom bought it).
I feel really bad because I really really really really like him and I feel bad that he's spending so much on me and I'm being Miss Cheap-o.
Should I get him something after break (when my mom knows that were going out) as a "Make-Up Christmas"?
If yes, then what should I get him??
I'm so confused.
---14/f
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Ok first i think you really need to tell your mom,she is your mom and she will understand or get over it eventually.about the gifts,i wouldnt worry too much about it,hell love anything you get him.just make it special.
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the best thing is tell your mom you are going out, if she finds out from a secondary source she will be hurt and if she finds out you lied to her she might be hurt even more so. if your mom is you mom she will understan, maybe be a bit upset but she will understand(i started dating a guy my mom thought i should wait on and she was a bit peeved at first but she got over it, she really likes him and we have now been dating over a year). if you decide not to tell your mom then tell your boyfriend why you couldnt get him a good gift get him one later and if he is a good boyfriend then he will understand.
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well actually that's not TOO bad of a gift(: maybe to go along with the gift you could write him a niiiice loooong love note(:! everyone enjoys those, seriously. I wouldn't say get him a make-up christmas gift though. Try the note, he'll love it!
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Make a nice platter of cookies, and decorate some of them with frosting, maybe with "I Adore You!" on some of them (hide them under plain cookies so your mom doesn't see haha)
Homemade, thoughtful gifts mean a lot more than something you buy. As for the whiteboard, write something really cute on it before you give it to him. You're not being Miss Cheap-O, so don't worry about it!
hope I helped, and Merry Christmas! =)
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