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ok well i told blake that i loved him and idk im anxious to get the reply (i sent an email) like i really want the email to see what he has to say. but i havent gottin it yet. its only been like a day since i sent it. but i mean i know he checks his email like everyday. could he be avoiding the email because hes scared that it says something. i dont know, but i really want the email. is there anyway i can hint to him to check his email with out having me sound like im desperate for him to check his email?
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You want him to think something untrue about you then? Because hon: you ARE desperate! REALLY desperate! Take a breather. Relax for a second.
1) If he checks his email regularly then he's gotten it. Remember: he's a boy and he's very very very very young. Responding to "I love you" emails is probably not as important to him as it is to you. That's just the way it is. He's not scared of what your email might say; he probably didn't give it any thought before he opened it. He probably just has no idea what to say, and I kind of have a feeling he won't feel the same way you do. I mean, he's a boy and he's very young, remember? Take a breather. Relax for a second.
2) Telling some guy that you love him when you're 13 is pretty heavy stuff! And it's also pretty likely to have changed by the end of next week. Especially if his response isn't one that you like. And if his response really bugs you, then was it really "love" to begin with? Probably not. Not really a phrase to be throwing around, especially through as impersonal a medium as email. If you really care about someone, you tell them to their face. Anything else is just flirting. And if it's just flirting, part of flirting involves waiting anxiously for a response. Take a breather. Relax for a second.
Take a breather.
Relax for three years.
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YES HE COULD BE, BECAUSE HE iS AFRAiD OF iT BEiNG A JOKE OR MAYBE GETTiNG HURT iF HE SAY`S iT BACK. YOU CAN BE LiKE i GOT THiS DUMB FORWARD BUT iT WAS FUNNY ii SENT iT TO YOU. YOU SHOULD CHECK iT OUT ! HOPE iT WORKS
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Dont make him check his email...I think that just makes you sound wayy to deperate. Just give him a little bit of space, like tlak to him and everything, but dont bring up anything about emails...because maybe he's just changing the way he's on the computer. and then if it's been a couple of days, and he still hasnt replied, then ask him, so have you been on your computer lately? Checked your emails? and then ask him if he got yours, and just see how it goes from there. To know if he is avoiding you, see if you guys can talk without any weird feelings. Maybe he acts different, if he does dont jump to conclusion that he is avoiding you, MAYBE he does have feelings for you and doesnt know how to act.
GOOD LUCK!
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Either Blake hasn't gotten around to checking his e-mail yet, or he's avoiding telling you how he really feels.
If it's the second option, that's a bad thing.
Don't dwell on that though, find something better to do (like watch TV, or play video games, or not wait around your computer). He checks his e-mail everyday. He'll get around to reading your e-mail.
If not today, then tommorow. And if you don't get a response, just ask him if he got your e-mail. If he didn't, and he's curious about what it said, then tell him in person.
Telling a guy in person is always better anyway.
If he just said no, then chances are he did read it, and doesn't want to tell you that he doesn't have feelings for you. You can either:
-Tell him you'll resend it, if you really believe he didn't get the email.
-Or say the ever classic "Oh, okay." and drop it.
Hope you get your e-mail.
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emailing something like that probably wasn't the wisest idea to begin with. He's probably terrified. Wait a day, if there's no reply, tell him somehow that you just wanted him to know how you feel, and he doesnt need to feel the same way just now. Don't do anything for the next day or so. Play it cool, dont look desperate.
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I think it is one of these two explanations...
1. It has only been a day. Give some time. I know your anxious but be patient because it might take him a while to actually write back. Or he might of not even gotten the email yet.
2. It might be awkward for him. You guys are 13 so he is probably a little shocked or uncertain what to write back.
If he doesnt reply then just talk to him in person and find out whats going on.
Good luck!
Ashley♥
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♥ You could start up a conversation. Maybe start by saying something like, I got this really wierd email the other day.
♥ that should chigger his memory and if he hasn't already checked then he should soon.
♥ If that doesn't help I'm sorry. But I hope it does.
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