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There's a guy...
okay, theres a guy that i really like. he always gives out clues that he MIGHT like me. but, when me and my best friend ask her bf, and the guy i like, to go somewhere, he says no. (NOT a double date) hes the only boy i ever liked so long. i already told him i liked him. well, my friend told him. and,i probably won't ever stop liking him! does he really like me? what should i do?
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To you, this could sound harsh, and if it does, I apologize:
So your friend told him how you feel about him, and you asked him out.
No! No, no, no, no, no!
Please, let the guy do the hard work. And let yourself at least have the great opportunity of saying "No." when the guy asks you out. (or "Yes." depending on said guy.)
It sounds old fashioned, but chasing after a guy is really no fun. Especially when he turns you down.
If he asks you out, you know for a fact he's interested.
He already knows your feelings, and has done nothing about them. Which is basically his way of saying "I don't like you that way."
So find a guy who will go on a double date with you.. or not a double date, as you like to call it. It's easier than it sounds.
Just because you've liked him a long time, doesn't mean you have to keep on making the same mistake. And if he's not interested, then that's his mistake.
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♥ You probably scared him or made him nervous when you had your friend tell him that you like him. Maybe you should just give him time and he might see what he's missing.
♥ And trust me, you will get over him. hehe. it's just a cruch! ;)
♥ Good Luck, Sorry x3.
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sounds like this one is DOA, thats dead on arrival. Getting a friend to tell some guy that you like him is a mistake that many novices make.
As for thinking you'll never stop liking him, it'll go. trust me. it feels like you'll love him forever right now, but if nothing happens and you harbor those feelings for too long, you're just going to end up hurting yourself.
If he likes you, great, take it from there. If not, forget him, find someone else. I know its hard, I went through the same thing when I was younger. But there is life after your first prolonged crush, you'll see.
If you want to see if he likes you, just talk to him! Ask him yourself, ask him if he wants to go ice skating (or rollerblading if theres no snow where you are), and see if he takes the bait. He might just not want to do a double date (which you'd think would be less awkward, but boys can be dumb sometimes). Good luck.
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