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Jealous? (sorry its sorta long)
Okay so yesterday I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go to the movies with me on Monday. He said he didnt know. Well, I should fill you in on the background. Every since we have been going out and before there's been this girl he met this last summer on a cruise. She always leaves him comments about how much she misses him and she's constantly talking to him and leaving really weird comments. Yesterday I looked at her away message and it said "*my boyfriends name*-Call me." But anyways Back to the movies..lol. So I asked him to go to the movies and he said maybe. So then today I was like "Are you coming?" and he said he didnt know it depended on whether or not his friend (the girl from the cruise) could do something since he hadnt seen her since august. My questions is: Should I be jealous? I mean I TOTALLY trust him but its this girl i dont trust. I wouldnt put it past her to try something with him.And plus i really wanted to do something with him since i havent seen him in a week. So do i have a reason to be jealous? Should I talk to him about it? Please help me I need to know quickly. Thanks so much =) Happy New Year!
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In a relationship you should be upfront, honest, and open about what is bothering you and what is fine. If you two don't trust each other your relationship will fall apart slowly, and if you can't trust him to be with his friends just like you can be with yours your relationship will fall apart slowly. Talk to him about that is going on and ask him if anything is happening between the girl and him.
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Well, I think you should talk to him.Dont make it sound like you dont trust him, because he might get take it as that so you have to choose your words really carfully. and then also suggest doing something all together, therefor, when the girl does something IF she does something, you'll be there. Ask him if he wants to do soemthing all together, make it sound like you dont care that he has these extra girl friends.
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umm idk if you should be jealous, but i wouldn't let him go alone with her haha =) ask him why you all can't do stuff together & juss tell him you're uncomfortable with the fact that he won't go to the movies w/ you, but go with her & make plans. wouldn't it make more sense if he would've asked her to go to the movies with you guys?? idk talk to him about it & you guys could probably come up with something. if you truly trust him though it shouldn't be a problem, you juss have to talk to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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