hello!! my name is kelly and i try to help anyone in any possible ways so if you have any questions...feel free to ask!!!
love always...
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: December 27, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: January 2, 2006
Visitors: 1634
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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks (link)
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ever heard the saying "no strings attached" its like that.. you can fool around but you each kno it means nothing...or you both kno it means something..but maybe they cant go out...
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Recently I was messing around with my boyfriend. We didn't have sex. But we both got his cum on our fingers.. Then he fingered me not long after.
My period isn't here yet; it's late. Could I be pregnant? (link)
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... well i mean there is a SMALL chance...but its kinda doubtfull... just wait... i mean dont stress out..but be aware...
good luck!
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alright well my name is alyssa and im 14...well this christmas we were supposed to go outta town to pick out our presents and well i thought we were going on a thurs. and i made plans with 2 girls (leanna and emily) well i was at a friends house wed night and i didnt get home till late and i got on the computer and emily popped up...hey thanx for calling leanna back. I was like no one told me she called and so she told me she did and all this stuff and then she asked about our plans we made and i said i couldnt go becuz i was going shopping and she flipped out and now we are in this huge fight for me canceling on them and leanna wont talk to me and i dont wanna say sorry becuz im not...and i still wanna be friends with them they just dont wanna hear me out..they want it to go on....ahh drama drama drama!! i hate it!! since they arnt talking to me...does anyone have a good email i could send them? please and thanx!! (link)
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if you arent sorry...its best not to say you are..so props on that...well tell them you couldnt come through with the plans...explain... and if they are being a bitch after you try to make it up to them...well that isnt your problem...they arent worth it... you can only do so much
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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well seems like youre in a pretty hard situation...well mabe you shouldnt have a boyfriend... i dont think you'd like it if your boyfriend had feelings for an ex...well im not here to judge you ... im here to try and help...maybe you should give it more time until you are over your ex to get a new boyfriend...if you really love you new boyfriend..then maybe its that you dont like your ex...but you miss whatyou two had and/or could've had?? hmm i hope i have the right idea on this!!! just give it time...and if you continue to see intrest in your ex...its time to call a break on the new boyfriend...
boys come and go... so dont put too much stress on your self..
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...Before we went out we talked for a loong time. Months. We started going out on the 22nd. We haven't been on a date YET ever since we've been going out because christmas, family, etc. Girls=Kissing Tips. Guys=Recommend any things i do to "spark up" the date?
ANYTHING WOULD HELP
I REEEEEEALLLY like him! (link)
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dont worry, if he likes you then he will like you for you..dont be hard on yourself...
kissing yip...um chap stick not lip gloss!
lol
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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect (link)
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i think that maybe she is feeling down..and is jealous that to her your life is better..its like when someone so much prettier than you is saying how ugly they are...kinda like that..tell her your sorry and see if maybe she had a bad day... cope with eachothers problems!
good luck sweetie!!
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this is what happened..
an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'
Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!
so now im crying 10x harder
I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"
I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before
I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.
So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'
He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care
i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'
thanks for reading all of this. xo byee
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wow!!!! your friends are the ones being a bitch!!! you dont need them or you boyfriend..thats so lame...they shouldnt do that to you...and for your friends not to call is wrong...you ( in my oppinion) should tell your friends how you feel...try and work it out and if they are being bitchy... then ditch that...plus.. if i were you id be done with the guy..thats not right..at all no matter what...
ok i hope i helped...good luck
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if you want to try doing drugs and its your own decision...is it wrong?
& what do ya do when//if ur parents find out?
your friend the
-XxX-soon 2 b drugy -XxX- (link)
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drugs arent good honey!!! there are better things to get caught up in! usually parents find out because your attitude and outlook change... if its not something your stuck on...then dont try it!!!!! plus it cost a lot of money...and you can ruin your life!!!
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I've been in love with this boy for 3 years.
And we broke up.
And He doesnt seem to care,
he wont talk to me.
And I'm dying here..
And its for sure over.
What can I do to ease the heartache..
anything?
I rate high for sincere answers. (link)
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try to get over him..seee other ppl..if it doesnt work..then maybe yall are meant to be and if so..he will come back to you..everyone deals with heartache..it sucks majorly...but let him kno how you feel...
i wish you the best of luck
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hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess (link)
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tell him he is coming on too strong,and you have friends and other people in your life..but make sure he knows you still want him in your life... and friends are important to you..you have to tell him so..but let him kno that he is important to you as well... you have to take the ups and the downs..and so does he...
good luck
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My mom has been having a fast heartrate lately. She suffers from depression and anxiety. What could be wrong? Im really worried, and, what should I do to help? Ill rate 5's. (link)
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try to maybe help out around the house..by her her favorite candy...the little things mean the most.
good luck!
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I like this boy a lot..hes constantly all i think about..he almost seems perfect to me ...like nothing is wrong with him..and although everyone has imperfections i just dont see them..well he knows i like him but he doesnt know that i think hes like perfect , but he just doesnt seeem to care or anything..he has a girlfriend but they been goin out for like 1 week..i just want him to care that i like him and not hurt me and like rub in my face that he has a girlfriend..so what do i do?
I rate 5 for any help (link)
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aw i totally kno how you feel!!! the best thing to do is to tell him..you might want to wait until he doesnt have a girlfriend because she might get mad and cause i seen. but if he is the type of guy who wouldnt go tell her..then you should tell him..he might be feeling the same way..you never kno...
good luck
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My bestfriend made out with my exboyfriend and i know that he is my ex but she is my bestfriend should my ecboyfriend be off limits?? What should i do? Should i tell her that she hurt me or just let it go?
Please i will rate 5's for any decent answers. (link)
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you have a total right to be upset.. no doubt about it!!!! of course, you should be honest and totally open...after all you have a right to be upset..ask her how she would feel if you did that to her..
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hi my name is jess im 13. well i constantly have these feelings that i wamt to die and i have no purpose for life. i play as many sports as u could think okso thats not really helping. i get really stressed easily and i cut myself once over a boy. I really need the best ways to handle it im getting really stressed and i cant enjoy myself. if theres any way i can handle it without having to talk to someone because i would sound stupid. please help
jess (link)
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jess, life can at many points be too stressfull.... its normal... but go easy on yourself..live day by day, dont worry about tomorrow when its only today!! try to go out with a good friend for ice cream... or go rent one of your old favorite movies... remember you only have one life to live...and about the cutting, sweetie boys arent worth that much stress... just wait for the brighter day honey!!!
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