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How do you get over an ex?


Question Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:34 pm

I've been in love with this boy for 3 years.
And we broke up.
And He doesnt seem to care,
he wont talk to me.
And I'm dying here..
And its for sure over.
What can I do to ease the heartache..
anything?

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ImIsStHeOlDyOu answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:17 am:
Hey, i had this problem a while back too. it defintaly sucks. but what i did, which might help you too. i tryed to just be with the people i felt the closest with, that way i have no time by myself to actually have to think about him. then you slowly realize you really dont need him anymore. and i know you probably already heard this but if he doestn care, then he probably isnt worth it anyway. but really all you can do is just try your hardest to move on and hope to find someone else who will love you even more and treat you the way your suppose to be treated. Cheer up it will get better, trust me =)
-Dez

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Justanordinaryday answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:02 am:
try to get over him..seee other ppl..if it doesnt work..then maybe yall are meant to be and if so..he will come back to you..everyone deals with heartache..it sucks majorly...but let him kno how you feel...

i wish you the best of luck
<333

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MissAdvice answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 8:15 pm:
Hi

aw hun, i'm totally sorry. I knew that the heartache sucks major. You need alittle time to get over him, so for a few nights stay at home, have some ice cream and watch some moviess, then aftera few nites go out with some friends, it might hurt to be with some guys so stick with the gurlss...then after a few more days start going out with some guys and girls, have fun, enjoy life..eventally you mite move on, but take it slow, i know its hard.

Miss Advice

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iloveyou123 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:59 pm:
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LEjLAXMAYAXMARiE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:58 pm:
hi there! aw i`m really sorry. but you can`t sit around feeling sorry for yourself. even though you loved him it`s aparently clear he didnt feel the same way back. let other guys into your life. he`ll get jelous, and he`s gonna relize what he`s mising!! good luck =D [&hearts;] Lej

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shopoholicgrl answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:29 pm:
Aw im sorry this happened =[. What you need to do is make yourself available to other guys out there. Not all guys are jerks like you ex is. It seems like it wasn't meant to be with him. Don't worry, you will find love =]. Good luck..and if you have any questions feel free to contact me!

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AskAaron52 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:54 pm:
Ok, you need to try your hardest to overcome this problem. Try to cope with your hurt feelings and get out and talk to more people. Obviously if he doesn't care then he isnt worthy of all of your pain. Try not to dwell in the past ok? Try to move on with everything and forget. He isnt worth your time if it is affecting you so much. Well good luck with everything alright?

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HollisterXwhorez answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:53 pm:
Awe Hunnie i went threw the same thing..i was going out with this boy for..about 4 years...and then we broke up cause he liked my sister..and he stopped talking to me and wouldnt even look at me..and how i got over him..even tho it hurt alot and took alot of time..and crying... i thougt to myself i was better then him and nobody should cry over a guy..and my friends were there to cheer me up..so in the end i counted on my friends and myslef to get over him!! you should maybe do the same..

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HCOxBABE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:53 pm:
That happened to me before.. ahh that's the worst feeling ever. I'm really sorry. :[ Try to keep your mind off of it by hanging out with your friends, go shopping, watch movies, talk on the phone, go online, listen to music [ none of the sad // emo stuff though because that'll just make you even more sad ]. Do whatever you love to do & just keep busy. Time will mostly mend a broken heart. If you want to be in another relationship soon then talk to some guys that you think would be a good boyfriend, but for now I think you should just hang out with your girl friends. They help out a lot. Good luck, hope you feel better soon.

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xOViLLYxO answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:47 pm:
Aw I'm sorry babe! GUYS ARE ASSHOLES!! G0SH I HATE THEM WITH PASSION! Anyways, I know this might sound crazy but you have to get over him. If his little retarded self is being an ass about everything screw him. I'm sure you will find someone new and better.Just scream so loud,write your feelings down,listen to music.Don't worry babe &hearts;

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xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:45 pm:
My opinion is that you should try to look for someone else. You can go out shopping with friends(always helps) or you can do other activites that have NOTHING to do with your old "ex". You probably heard this quote "theres pleanty of figh in the sea" !!
hope i helped

&hearts: Suejla

&hearts;&hearts; <---- hope ur &hearts; heals !!

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SWEETXLOVE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:45 pm:
aw sweetie that must be tough im sorry! you could turn the radio up really loud and just scream..get everything out. or you could call a best friend and just pour your heart out. hmm maybe you could get a massage haha i &hearts; those! umm also you could just go out with friends and have a good time to get your mind off him. like go to a movie or the mall..anything! go boy scoping =) find some new hotties..then start talking to them and hanging out with them! just go out and have a good time..meet new people! things will get better hun but if you need anything leave it in the inbox!!
&hearts; Kristen

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