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hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess
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Tell him you care about him and you would like to be around him all the time if you could. But you also have friends too and so does he and every once in a while there is nothing wrong with wanting to spend some time with your friend and give each other space. If you don't spend any time with your friends then they will start to question you just like your boyfriend does. I hope that I helped but if not you can stop by my column.
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just talk to him. tell him that you really care about him and want to be with him but you also have friends that you love and want to be around them. and chances are, if you are 13, this relationship shouldnt be taken too seriously. you have a choice : explain things to your boyfriend or ditch your friends. i'm sure you don't want to loose your friends, so i suggest talking to your boyfriend. if this guy doesn't treat you like the queen you really are then he probably isn't worth your time. if he does get mad, just tell him that you have a life outside of him. i really hope things work out for the best! <3 <3 <3
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tell him he is coming on too strong,and you have friends and other people in your life..but make sure he knows you still want him in your life... and friends are important to you..you have to tell him so..but let him kno that he is important to you as well... you have to take the ups and the downs..and so does he...
good luck
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ok, ask him if he is afraid of you leaving him. If he is then reasure him that you wont, because you say you truly love him. If he cant take that for an answer than he is too controlling over you and not worth liking. Dont let him control you, make sure you discuss this problemn seriously with him, 1 on 1 if you are dissapointed after this conversation than i dont believe it is meant to be.
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huunn.. i think hes a little high maintenance. it seems like he expects a lot from you. tell him straight forward that you love him, tell him you'll split your time between him & your friends. if that doesnt work, then im afraid hes not worth it sweetie. :-(
hope i helped darlin .
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That's always the hard thing about being a relationship, is balancing out the boyfriend and the friends. He just may really really like you and want to be with you all of the time, which is sweet in some sense, but yet like you said..annoying. You just need to talk to him and explain to him that you do love him and want to spend time with him, it's just you miss your friends sometimes and want to spend some time with them also. And he should hang out with his friends too, cause I'm sure they want to hang out with him too. Tell him your friends are important to you, but he's important too. If you want to talk more, just IM me at imELECTRiCbaby x
Love,
Mel
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Talk to him & tell him to give you some space. He's a little too obsessive & jealous if he only wants you to be with him all the time. You're not being a bitch if you want to hang out with your friends & not him for once.
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You need to talk to him. He`s wayy over obsessed and he needs to stop. I don`t know how you`d be able to handle that, I`ve never ever had a boyfriend that`s ever been like that to me, and if I ever had, I`d break up with him in a second. If you`re in love with him, it may be a hard thing to think about, but are you really happy with him? Are you happy that you can`t even hang out with your friends anymore because you`re with him? Probably not. Consider maybe breaking up with him, or atleast threatening it. I`m sure that once he knows how much it actually bothers you, he`ll stop being an ass. =[ If he gets mad over you saying, that your friends are important to you, he isn`t worth anything, honestly. You can do much better. And I`m sure you don`t want to lose your friends because of this overprotective guy, do you?
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tell him you want your space. tell himt hat you want to spend some time with your friends not only him. explai to him that it isnt that you dotn love him it is just that you want some time to hang out with other people.
*~Stephanie~*
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