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ive been crying for the past hour
this is what happened..
an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'
Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!
so now im crying 10x harder
I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"
I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before
I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.
So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'
He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care
i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'
thanks for reading all of this. xo byee
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aww...dump him! && ur friends!..u shouldn't of cried over them..they were bein RUDE!!..u should really find new friends! bcuz they shouldn't go out with YOUR b/f..and then ditch you like that..especially practially rub it in your face..ugh that would of made me so mad..it was mean wat they did..so 4get them- -i hope i helped--morgan danielle <33
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dump that assholeee.
and those arent real friends.
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dump him and ur so called "friends" they arent ur friends if they do that stuff to you. their not even worth crying about. im sure you can find new friends and a boyfriend. just ignore them and they will see that they messed with the wrong person. silent treatment works the best.
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their either really mean bastard pranksters or your bf is just an asshole who likes making people feal pain. sorry for being blunt but this isnt your fault at all. good luck finding a new, better, more caring, stick by your side kinda bf cuz theirs only a few of them out there.
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oh this is a tough situation.
first off. i think you should dump your friends. they dont seem to be the most faithful people. and a good friend wouldnt do that to you.
second. i think your boyfriend is a jerk. i wouldnt have allowed him to basically humiliate me in front of other people.
third. dont waste your tears on someone like this
get revenge lol its sweet.
fourth. you should defintaly talk to your boyfirned about it, and if he is going act that way in front of his firends he isnt worth it. find a guy that is going to treat you like your everything even in front of his friends, and isnt embarrassed to be affectionate or not cool in front of them. well i really dont know what else to tell ya but i hope i helped <3 good luck =)
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Is it possible that he just ran into your friends at the mall and didn't actually go there WITH them?
That's still no excuse for your girlfriends behavior. She would be history.
Could be your boyfriend just didn't hear your conversation with her and had no idea what was going on. Maybe he assumed she told you that they ran into him there. As a result didn't understand why you were upset.
Best thing to do is talk to him when he is at home and not among the friends. Give him a chance to explain himself.
The one who called you a bitch...she has some explaining to do before I would be friends with her again.
Good luck. :)
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wow!!!! your friends are the ones being a bitch!!! you dont need them or you boyfriend..thats so lame...they shouldnt do that to you...and for your friends not to call is wrong...you ( in my oppinion) should tell your friends how you feel...try and work it out and if they are being bitchy... then ditch that...plus.. if i were you id be done with the guy..thats not right..at all no matter what...
ok i hope i helped...good luck
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I'm sorry but what the fuck is that? Quite obviously, your friends are total immature losers who have no life.
If they wanted to chill with your boyfriend, they could have done that and not been such idiots about it and called you for no reason.
Your boyfriend is being a jerk and you know what? You shouldn't tolerate that.
What you have to do now is pull yourself together and ignore your friends and your boyfriend for a bit. Just pretend that you don't give a fuck and you think they're way too juvenile and they need to grow up.
Next order of business? Make plans with HIS friends. If he can chill with your friends, why can't you chill with his? If you can't find anyone there, go to the mall with ANY guy (or two if they don't feel comfortable going on a date-like thing, just no girls) and try to bump into your boyfriend and your friends or find a subtle way to let your boyfriend know that you're there with guys.
All he needs is a taste of his own medicine. If he has a problem with you hanging around any of his friends or other guys, he can go fuck himself.
As for the first chick who called you, she's nothing but a jealous bitch who has beef against you and has found an idiotic desperate way to deal with it. People like that aren't even worth talking to. She had no excuse to be a bitch and spazz out at you like that.
This whole group of people need to get a life. I understand that you can't ditch them all, because obviously, as shitty as they're acting, they're your friends. Next time, just act cool and detached around them and don't talk so much.
I'm sorry you had to go through this honey, some people are just dicks.
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if i were you a would have been flipping out on there asses. i wouldn't take this. you need to talk to that boy of your's face to face in private. then you need to bitch out your so called bff's because if they are willing to do that and not be able to figureout why you are upset than they don't really know you. so settle down tonight and talk to them when you have your head and are able to see them.
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wow.. ya lost me a lil bit but i think i got it..ok well..sometimes its best to keep crying.. you need to let your emotions out so 1. blast the music!! your favorite most upbeat thing you have!! anything will do..2. ditch the guy..he doesnt deserve you..and neither do those bitches.. so id might concider ditching them to.. 3. maybe even concider going to the mall with one of their boyfriends or best friends..anything to get them jealous and give them a taste of what yoy got in store for them..revenge is always sweet.. 4. make new friends! talk to new people.. people who are trust worthy and would never do something soo horrible!
well i hope my advice was helpful!!
p.s.--good luck!!
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hun dont let those bitches make you mad.your boyfriend dosent even relly seem like he cares about you at all!your friends seem missed up too.you should just stop seeing your boyfriend if hes going to act that way.oh and your friend that called you a bitch if i was you i would really kick her ass!....lol.j.k
anyways my point is if you still want to work somthing out with your boyfriend then sit down and talk to him,and tell him how you feel.if you don't want to be with him.then just break it off with him.
hope you feel better<3
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Screw them all. Kick all of there asses.They are jeloous retards. Move on.. you don't need him or her.They all need to grow up and get a life. I know that you will find someone better !NEVER CRY OVER A GUY..I have before and I regret every second of it.Most guys just want to see you cry so don't let that ASSHOLE get to you ♥
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aw sweetie this sucks to say the least. these people are being rude and arrogant and they're doing it to make you mad. they thought they had you cornered so they kept going and going. it was really really immature and rude of them to do all this. number one DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND. i dont care how much you 'love him' he is a total jerk i can tell. second if these people are really your 'bffs' they would never go to the mall w.out you and w. your bf. believe me if they think you are a bitch they need to seriously think about what a bitch is because they are being it! i know exactly how you're feelin babe! dont say anything for a while let it calm down and in a few days if they dont say anything first then confront one by one! <333 much love xoox
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You call that a friend? She needs a re-course in Friendship 101. I'd be pissed off too, if my friend did that to me. The friend who handed your boyfriend the phone, sounds like she does care about you. The other friend is just...not a friend at all. Oh, and your 'boyfriend'? You can do way better. There are guys out there who will treat you better - there are also friends out there who will treat you better. Nobody deserves to be treated like they treated you.
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ok, this guy, and your "friends" are not worth any of this crap. if your boyfriends not even gonna talk to ou about it, he obviously doesnt care about you. Dump the guy. it will work out better in the long run. It will definately suck at first tryin to figure out what to do w/o him, but after a while youll know its for the better. No body deserves to get treated like that.
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Hey Hun! I Am Oh So Sorry To Hear About This
First You Need to Breathe.
Second, At a time when he is alone ask to meet up with him so you two can talk. If he says 'NO' Then say " you are risking everything we HAD and we could HAVE, WE NEED TO TALK" if he still refuses then say "fine everything is gone, in the wind, vanished, and its all because of you" and hang up. This will most likely show him that you dont care if you lost him even if you do. I learned that all guys want from you is a reaction and if you show like you dont care then they will FLIP! {[ I hope it works! ]}
To Deal with the friends...Let it past, you sound like a pretty dedicated girl so i think you need to let them try to get you back! once ((if :[ )) you and your b.f are back together they will be so upset that you are acting like you dont care that they will practically BEG for you back!
I'm sorry if this doesnt work but i hope it does!
G00D LUCK!
xOx RACHAEL ANASTASiA <3
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This guy isn't worth it. Your feelings should be more important to him. He's an inconsiderate idiot. He let your 'friend' call you a b*tch, and he didn't seem to care that you were obviously hurt. You deserve so much better!
The 'friends' are losers, too! One friend called you a b*tch, and one embarrassed you. Not great qualities in a friend. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!
Talk to them and ask them why they acted the way they did. Be calm; don't freak out. Don't throw insults at them, either.
If they keep being mean, ignore them. Dump the boyfriend, and go on with your life. You don't deserve to be treated like this by people who were supposed to be there for you. Don't try to get revenge, because that just shows them that what they did gets to you and that you aren't over it.
You deserve so much better, like I said. These people obviously have something wrong with them if they just did that for no reason.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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Aww hun. That's so sad. I'm sorry. =[
First of all you need to settle down. I know that this is a hard thing to go through because you have people ganging up against you and you don't even know why, but seriously, calm down.
Secondly, why do YOU think that they would do this? Did you do something to them? Or is there any reason that they would even think about not inviting you to the mall, or making your boyfriend turn against you?
Now, don't ever answer the phone. EVER! No matter who, your "boyfriend" or "friends" (that were at the mall.) Don't call them, or anything. Honestly I'm trying to put myself in your shoes, and I know that it seems like a bad idea, and you don't want to stop talking to your friends, but honestly if they're willing to go THAT far, with a "joke" they aren't worth anything.
Until you've stopped crying, then you can answer the phone, but until then just sleep and do whatever you do. :)
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Hey There,
OMG I would Kick his Royal Butt! Break up with him. DO NOT cry cause that makes them feel good. Like "Oh Look She's crying over ME!!!" and they feel important. Just act like it doesn't bother you. I'm single and I perfer not having a boyfriend. And For the girl. My advice:
BEAT THE LIVING CRAP OUT OF HER!!!
Good Luk!
-GD ((Green Day))
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