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I have thought alot about suicide. Wrote suicide letters, read them over and over. Some days I want to kill myself, others I don't. I was just wondering for someone who is catholic and christian why do these thoughts occur. I believe in God so much and go to church all the time, but yet I have these evil thoughts, what would happen if I were to kill myself, would I go to hell? (link)
if you killed yourself, no you wouldnt go to hell, that is if you are a true born again christian. The bible says that nothing can take your salvation away. You believe in God thats all it takes to be his. but, if you did decide to go through with suicide, think about all the people youd hurt..your friends...and think about all the things youd miss out on..


First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.

But.

I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.

I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?

Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like

"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"

or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
its not that sex itself is wrong, but premarital, yeah it is wrong...its says so in the bible, read it =)


Im not anti-christian, infact im christian myself but, why do christians think that witchcraft is wrong? Its another religion just like Buhdism and christianity itself. (link)
because its...witchcraft..and the bible says its wrong..and you would be misinformed if you believe its just like any other religion..cuz its not..at all....read the bible and youlll see what i mean


Do you believe in God or not? Explain why. Don't say because that's the way you were raised, I'm talking about how you feel now.

Do you really believe that God is real just because a book was written saying there was one? Couldn't it be a fable?

Do you support evolution and the Big Bang Theory or not? Please explain as much as you can. I will give you all 5's! (link)
1.) yes i absolutely believe in God because i have proof: my bible =)
2.)yes i do believe that. It couldnt be a fable. It was written 2000 years ago, and unless there were some EXTREMELY high-tech fortune tellers back then,how can you explain the bible's teachings? It says that when the end of the world is coming, and Jesus is coming back that the world will basically be hell on Earth.People will question God, make excuses about the bible's teachings, and will take away his glory from all the things he did. (sound familiar?) If you want, read The book of Romans, it will back this up. =)
3.)i guess in a sense, i believe in the big bang theory...God said BANG and it happened 8-) and if evolution is real, why arent monkeys still turning into people? and if pmonkeys evolve in to people, does that mean that unkyard parts EVOLVE into mustang convertables? i dont think so. Darwin was wrong, he even admitted it. theres no proof whatsoever to back up evolution OR the big bang theory (except for my version of the big bang theory) creation has proof. it starts with BI and ends with BLE!!!

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I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks! (link)
um, first off, i totally disagree with one person;s advice,...christians do NOT believe that praying to mary isn impotant, and thats really rude to bash someone's religion like that if you know nothing about it,. Its not that its not important to us, its that,mary cant help you. Mary was chosen by God to deliver Jesus. She was a regular person just like you and me. praying to her is just praying to a dead relative if you really think about it.She was Just a person, she has no real power. She was BLESSED because she was chosen by God.

MAtthew 1:18-25
to summarize for ya, it basically talks about how mary was chosen to birth Jesus and how the angel came to Joseph to explain God's will for Jesus' virgin birth.
Matthew 1:23- Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall call his name Emmanuel, which being interpretted, means God with us.

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If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything? (link)
" Yeah I read the Bible. I don't need your references. I asked who created him. If he was the creator, how could he have created himself. Obviously at one point in time, there was nothing, no God. Then he was created. Who could have created him?"





if you are THE creator, NOBODY creates you. HE IS NOT HUMAN. HENCE THE NAME HOLY SPIRIT. And dont send me rude feedback to questions i answered and took time out of my day to answer. If you dont want answers to your questions dont ask them. at one point in time youre right, there was no nothing. But there WAS a God and HE created what we have. if you woulda read what i sent in the first place instead of sayin crap like you did you would know that. But, if youre gonna get all defensive when i answer your questions that YOU ASKED ME IN THE FIRST PLACE, i suggest talkin to a pastor or a church leader about it. hopefully you wont be rude to them.
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this is what happened..

an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'

Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!

so now im crying 10x harder

I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"

I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before


I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.


So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'

He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care


i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'


thanks for reading all of this. xo byee



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ok, this guy, and your "friends" are not worth any of this crap. if your boyfriends not even gonna talk to ou about it, he obviously doesnt care about you. Dump the guy. it will work out better in the long run. It will definately suck at first tryin to figure out what to do w/o him, but after a while youll know its for the better. No body deserves to get treated like that.




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