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Ok so for new years i want to go to a party but my mom wants to tlak to the parents and its wicked embarresing i dont want her to what can i do. also all the girls are going to someones house afterwards besides me cuz i wasnt invited how do i get them to invite me without inviting myself? (link)
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moms are gay like that.. just let her know that your old enough and responsible enough that you should be able to go somewhere with out her having to talk to the parents..and the second question.. try and be fun whenever your around them.. just be really cool and look like u dont even give a shit what they think anyway..be yourself too
hope this helped
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if you find someone that you just can't stop thinking about and that you're CRAZY about, what do you do to help get him off your mind? especially if you know there's no chance of you getting to be with him? and how do you start acting normal again if you're really depressed and sad because of him? i just want to forget about him and stop being depressed and start acting happy and energetic again. please help!! (link)
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this is wierd cause this exact thing happened to me.. it kind of varies.. i think maybe you should hang out iwth him alot and find all the negative things about him and try to pick fights with him soo maybe he'll call you a few names..which will hurt trust me.. and then you'll hate him.. the guy that i liked..well.. i went out with him and like 2 days later he broke up with me then i found out he had a girlfriend like the next day had a g/f and i was sooo upset because he was all i thought about..but then we hung out more and more and i kinda got a taste of what he was like and what his personality was like and i kinda hated him more and more until i just stopped liking him..of course i will always love him..but i just dont like him..? idk mixed emotions..but i hope this helped!
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ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets call him kyle well he was 15 like me. and i dont know. but he talked about peverted things and i was ok with it. i talked it back and stuff. and i dont know but i didnt feel as uncomfortable with him and talking about it. and now with matt, he is talking to me again and im trying soo hard to like be comfortable with him and all the things he says. but i just dont seem like i can. so i really dont know what my question is. but i just need some advice about the whole situation.anything helps. definate 5's for any advice. (link)
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age difference definately has something to do with it but also probably because you liked him more as a friend..u may have liked him alot but sometimes.. things are better when your just friends.. like..i liked this guy alot!! and we went out and broke up 2 days later and he was like a totally different person than i thought he was..idk
hope this helped
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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect (link)
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ok well..first things first..talk to her!! tell her your sry and u didnt realize all these feeling were all bpttled up inside her..let her know your there for her and you would never ever want to give up her friendship..and tell her you love her.. she needs that right now and just let her cry on YOUR shoukder so she can let out her feelings..and trust me.. that will bring u guys together closer than ever!
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this is what happened..
an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'
Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!
so now im crying 10x harder
I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"
I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before
I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.
So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'
He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care
i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'
thanks for reading all of this. xo byee
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wow.. ya lost me a lil bit but i think i got it..ok well..sometimes its best to keep crying.. you need to let your emotions out so 1. blast the music!! your favorite most upbeat thing you have!! anything will do..2. ditch the guy..he doesnt deserve you..and neither do those bitches.. so id might concider ditching them to.. 3. maybe even concider going to the mall with one of their boyfriends or best friends..anything to get them jealous and give them a taste of what yoy got in store for them..revenge is always sweet.. 4. make new friends! talk to new people.. people who are trust worthy and would never do something soo horrible!
well i hope my advice was helpful!!
p.s.--good luck!!
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okay well me and this guy Jordan dated for 6 months and he dumped me in August. I know I had my chance before and everything but now i realize i still really like him! I really never stopped liking him acctualy. But now my best friend Chelsey is dating him!! What should I do? I can't tell Chelsey that I still like him becauase then She'll hate me forever. Should I try to break them up? Should I talk to Jordan about it or maybe straighten things out with Chelsey (( prefferably not )) ? Please help me. I'll rate 5's unless you're mean.
Sincerley,
Broken-hearted lover (link)
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haha im glad you asked this!! these situations are tough.. this happens with my friends all the time..lets call them alyssa and gab--well alyssa will date some1 and then she'll break up with him and then gab will date that person then will gab is dating alyssa's ex alyssa will have a new b/f then alyssa will dump him and when gabs done with alyssa's old ex she'll go for the new one..and even though it isnt me.. it pisses me off! because rule #1 between friends is never EVER go out with an ex!! its just an unwritten rule every1 knows and should follow!! the right thing to do would to sit your friend down and tell her about these unwritten rules and let her know your offended..but honestly.. i would try and break them up.. im not gonna lie.. and if you decide to break them up then id convince chelsey to break up with him cause there are chances that (males being as retarded as they are) ur ex might say something or say that you told him something and your friend might be mad..i guess sjust point out all the negatives and maybe throw in a lie or 2..i know this isnt the right thing to do but well.. thats how i handle things!! its easy and saves everyone alot of drama and fighting which belive me you dont want!!
p.s.--hope this helped!! good luck!
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I once had this body spray that smelled like flowers. It was called "flower power" by the Smiley Calgon collection. They discontinued it and now Im left trying to find a new perfume/body spray. If anyone could tell me of a flowery scent they know of that'd be great. I rate. (link)
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hmm.. fantasy might be right for you
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im flat chested im a 32 a in bust size, but im really emberrased because i got this bra from VS and its fully padded and its a 34 a cause i know i dont fill it out and its really embarrasing to change in p.e. cause all the girls know i dont fill out my bra but when i wear the 32 a it hurts like my back and makes red marks which isnt healthy but then like a year ago when i did wear a 32 a sometimes when i wear loose shirts my boobs would look like tiny buds that looked really weird
fyi im short like 5'3" and i heard its less noticable if you have a flat chest if your tall, and ive had my period for about a year now.
I'll rate 5 if someome can help me (link)
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yea.. why are the oter girls looking anyway??
hahah really.. if u think its bad being flat chested.. its just as bad as talking about some1 who's flat chested
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Okay...i want some really good love songs. It would be best if they were by current artists, but if it's older thats fine. If anyone can give me this list quick and with good selections, i'll rate high (link)
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hmm.. some of my favorites are
1. its good to be in love - frou frou
2. promice - matchbox romance
3. underneath - jessica simpson
4. more than words - frankie j
5. stick wit you - pussycat dolls
6. i caught fire - the used (thats kinda a love song)
idk.. i know more i just cant think of emm..
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A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks. (link)
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i know its not fun being treated like crap.. but your right.. shes grieving.. and all i can really tell you to do is just no matter how hurtful the things she does are..just be the best friend you an be towards her.. because if the grieving goes too far.. you might lose her too... and i think all she needs is a friend she trusts.. and shes still in the process of finding one that wont leave her.. so prove it to her you can be that person
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my friend says shes gonna kill hetself how can i stop her without telling anyone (link)
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yea.. my friend gets likme that sometimes..just make her think of what she'll be missing out on.. an make her feel guilty about the people she'll hurt..aespecially you.. make sure she knows how hurt u'll be
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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
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ur totally normal!! really.. u were gonna find ou tsooner or later.. but anyway.. my friends new about it to.. soo no big deal
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My little brother is driving me crazy!!! He hits me when he gets mad and leaves bruises! and he wont leave me alone! i have a lock on my door except its a hook lock so he just unlocks it! I would tell my mom but every time i tattle she gets mad at "me"!!! Im 13 and its because h's 10 and her little baby! its driving me crazy and i need help please!!!
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yea... its a tough situation.. sit down with ur mom and just simply say.. "look.. ur 'little baby' needs to grow up and maybe a lil anger management help.. he's hitting me and leaveing bruises and its gotta stop" show her the bruises and dont take crap from her
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I quite often wish that I am more ill than i actually am. I found myself wishing that I could be in hospital over a christmas at some point. I was always ill as a child and spent a lot of last year ill with depression and glandular fever and in a way... i miss it.
I find myself exagerating all aches and pains, I almost like the pain sometimes.
I feel so messed up, do any of you guys ever feel like this? (link)
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YES!! i hate it..but then i love it..and i have like all these mixed up feelings..and lately i dont even know what i feel anymore
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