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okay well me and this guy Jordan dated for 6 months and he dumped me in August. I know I had my chance before and everything but now i realize i still really like him! I really never stopped liking him acctualy. But now my best friend Chelsey is dating him!! What should I do? I can't tell Chelsey that I still like him becauase then She'll hate me forever. Should I try to break them up? Should I talk to Jordan about it or maybe straighten things out with Chelsey (( prefferably not )) ? Please help me. I'll rate 5's unless you're mean.
Sincerley,
Broken-hearted lover
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so he dumped you already! so it means you have to carry on with your life.he is happy with your friend and definitly you dont want to hurt her by telling her you still like him.let them carry on with their life.you are still young you ll find a right guy oneday.or else you can still be a good friend to him and show him that you care about him.maybe soon or later he'll realise thet you are the one.till then live your life expand your circle of friends.god bless you.hope i helped.
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well since he is now dating your best friend it is best not to say anything yet. hangout with them alot and see if you really do like him or if it's just that you don't like him going out with chelsey. since he dumped you there it's much of a chancd that he still likes you but you never know, he might. try and find that out first. talk to his friends but not so openly to where they knw and say something to him. and hint and flirt with jordan a bit, but not infront of chelsey or in front of people that might tell. if he still likes you and thinks that you like him, then he'll probably break it off with her for you. but is that what you, is the really question.
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haha im glad you asked this!! these situations are tough.. this happens with my friends all the time..lets call them alyssa and gab--well alyssa will date some1 and then she'll break up with him and then gab will date that person then will gab is dating alyssa's ex alyssa will have a new b/f then alyssa will dump him and when gabs done with alyssa's old ex she'll go for the new one..and even though it isnt me.. it pisses me off! because rule #1 between friends is never EVER go out with an ex!! its just an unwritten rule every1 knows and should follow!! the right thing to do would to sit your friend down and tell her about these unwritten rules and let her know your offended..but honestly.. i would try and break them up.. im not gonna lie.. and if you decide to break them up then id convince chelsey to break up with him cause there are chances that (males being as retarded as they are) ur ex might say something or say that you told him something and your friend might be mad..i guess sjust point out all the negatives and maybe throw in a lie or 2..i know this isnt the right thing to do but well.. thats how i handle things!! its easy and saves everyone alot of drama and fighting which belive me you dont want!!
p.s.--hope this helped!! good luck!
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Okay, I can tell you don't want to talk to Chelsey, and talking to Jordan would kind of be a bad idea (since well, Chelsey's your best friend). Usually when people break up, they break up for a reason. Try to think of things that you hate about him, or try to think of other guys you see as potential boyfriends. Just try to think of it this way - who do you value more, Chelsey, or Jordan?
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Aw,talk to Jordan and tell him how you feel.Don't be afraid to tell him everything. Then tell Chelsey that you really aren't over him and you still like him,& if she hates you for that then she isn't a true friend. Just talk to Jordan and see how things go.Good Luck babe! ♥
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Okay i've been in this situation several times -talking to jordan behind her back would cause a fight with chelsey and you dont want that do you? i say talk to chelsey about it then talk to jordan tell them both u still have feelings 4 him and tell chelsey its really bothering you that she is goin out with you ex. friends dont do that to eachother i know if i did that to any of my friends they would hate me!
P.s. i hope i helped
xO Ashlee Ox
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