I need serious help fast. I have a job, and I didn't tell my bf(for what reason I don't know), but anyways when he would call me I would be at work I would just tell him I was in town, so now he thinks I am cheating. He thinks I am cheating because we haven't had sex in like forever and he thinks that I am getting it from someone else. Y'all I love him and he knows that he just thinks this, he like he trust me but not like he used to because I am never home and always in the other location. Help ASAP how can I get him to believe me?
denajah5 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 6:08 pm: why dont you just take him to your job to prove it.show him your boss or something.or tell him to come their while your working so he can see that your working.then show him your hours so he knows when your working.
but if it were me and he didnt trust me and he was being pressed like that i would of said fuck you.if you cant trust me then you can leave. [ denajah5's advice column | Ask denajah5 A Question ]
guitargirl answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:59 pm: well the obvious and the best way rly is to tell him that you work and if he doesn't believe you or somehting take him to where you work and show him! and ask yourself why you haven't had sex in ages. is it because you're not ready for it dont be ashamed if that's your answer!!!)? or is it that you work so much? or something else? than tell him why and say that you love him and tell him that you rly hope he believes you and that you'd never cheat on him!!!!!!!
sunnyville answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:55 pm: Why don't you give your work number and tell him he could call you to see that you really are.Or if you can take him where you work and to ask your boss the hours you work.Hope everything turns out alright. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
SpartanDancer985 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:51 pm: Well tell him you have a job. Or he probably won't believe you if you don't.But what i don't get is why you didn't tell him that in the first place. Well anyways just tell him what you really have been doing.
xomegaroni answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:31 pm: i think you should tell him all of this. since you guys are bf/gf you guys should have an open & honest relationship together. i'm sure if he had a job that you'd want to know too right? exactly, so juss talk to him about it. explain to him how you feel too, & then he'll explain how he feels also.
xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:31 pm: Okay, why in the hell you wouldn't tell him you had a job... I don't know. But MAYBE you should tell him that you have a job and that's where you've been whenever you say "I was in town".
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