I was on here like a month ago saying that the baby of my ex's could and couldnt be his child, well it is. I mean I am happy but it's like a feelingof insercurity. He tells me he is not going to leave me and he loves me, I don't want the baby to break us up, can someone please help me. I think about it every minute of the hour and when I think we are going to break up I start eating like a pig. Should I just break it off and suffer a longtime hurt or stay with him and see how things go please help. If you need more info or facts to help me say so. Thank you in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? guitargirl answered Monday September 5 2005, 6:17 pm: according to you he said he loves you and he won't leave you, yet you worry about it constantly. TRUST HIM!!!! Why would you want to break up with him if all your worried about is HIM breaking up with you? Obviously you're worried about if he will or wont break up with you, but by breaking up with him you're doing what you're afraid he will do to you. So honestly, dearie, i would stick with him and if something happens where you break up than so be it but don't hurt yourself becasue your afraid he would do that to you.
sunnyville answered Monday September 5 2005, 5:56 pm: Feeling that he will break up with you will only make you feel more upset I mean he will still take care of his baby but he told you that he won't leave you so stay with him and see how everything goes with your relationship.Stop eating a lot because you don't want to start gaining weight feel confident and trust that things will turn out fine a baby does not mean you too have to sacriface your love the baby will still have his or her father but I know you could be like a second mom you seem like a nice person no wonder your ex is in love with you! [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
shagrubble answered Monday September 5 2005, 5:40 pm: If it was me i would try to stay with him and see if it works. Cause you never know it might and not only that but it will be better in the long run cause you will know whether or not it was really meant to be for yall. [ shagrubble's advice column | Ask shagrubble A Question ]
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