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He Loves Me....Hes With Her
The kid I like has a girlfriend, which hes told me he doesnt really like her anymore. And he wants to go out with me, but hes afraid if he breaks up with her, she'll get the whole school and all her dumb friends after him. He said hes going to hug me, thats hes not afraid to show that he likes me too. But I don't even compare to his girlfriend! Soo....should I ask him to break up with her? Should I just wait? Someone please help me! I'm going crazy!
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If this guy truly had feelings for you, he would end his relationship with his current "girlfriend". younggrandma is right: "That's just an excuse." Girlfriend or not, why would you purposely PLACE yourself inside all of that petty drama and immaturity? you can do better, you know this.
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Do you really want a guy who is too chicken to break off a relationship and strings you along without his girlfriend knowing?
Really. I'll never understand these questions.
Anyways, it is his choice to break up with his girlfriend or not and the simple fact is that he is choosing not to break up! His words are pretty, but his actions are not backing them up.
Wait if you'd like, but if I were you I'd wait a good distance away. These two sound like they are headed for a messy breakup, with a guy who can't communicate and a girl who thinks it's okay to drag all her friends into her little emotional wars.
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Hes going to have to break up with her if you want to have a future with him. Unfortunately there are guys out there who will tell you anything. If he doesn't break up with her then tell him to forget it. I know that isn't the answer you'd like to have but, don't be used by any guy! I sincerely doubt the whole school is going to come after him. That's just an excuse. :)
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i think you should just wait it out and talk to him more about the situation..but tell him that you don't beleive him that he likes you if hes still going out with that other chick..well hope i helped im sorry i couldn't help more..good luck honey
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most DEFFINATLY ask him to break up with her. tell him it's either you or her. Becasue, hon, 3's a crowd applies in this case. If he's not afraid to show he likes you than he'll break up with this other girl and it seems more likely this girl and her friends would go after him if he was caught hugging you (two-timing her) than a gentel but firm break-up.
good luck and much luv,
Katie**
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Just wait for him until he breaks up with her so you too could be free to show your love to each other.But first tell him to break up with her because he can't be with two people at the same time!Don't go crazy just calm down and tell him that she can't touch him or the others if he breaks up with her but if he cheats on her that's another story.Also tell him not to worry.
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if he really honestly wanted to break up with her he would of already did it. so obviously hes not done liking her or whatever. he probably DOES like you he just isnt ready to break up with her yet.
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