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AHHH HELP.
okay so...i totally have this thing going with this amazzzinggg guy. i really love him. like i really do. this isnt just like one of those 2 week things and then your over him. i really love him. and idk it just seems its so much easier to talk to him on the computer. but i HATE THAT. i want to beable to talk to him in REAL LIFE...it really annoys me how i get like that. i mean i dont like freak out or anything...its just like so much easier on the computer. so thats why im happy schools coming soon and i get to talk to him. any good tips to calm down...or good lines to say? anything ill rate high. thanks a bunch! love, -me
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laugh at some stuff he says, and smile. that will make is easier for the two of you.
i understand its easier on the computer, there are no akward moments. but you've got to talk on the phone also.
you really shouldnt say lines.. just make stuff up. i dont know how good you guys are with joking, but you might wants to joke a little .. and have fun with it.. but nothing over the edge.
have fun .. smile, laugh. you'll do fine!
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I know what you are talking about. The reason why it is so much easier to talk on the computer is that you have so much more at your disposal. You have the internet, which is larger than the largest library ever. Also, you can stall more when you are asked a question or given something to talk about. Lastly, you don't have to see his expressions.
The way to overcome all of this is to just go in cooly, and just let it naturally come. Try to act relaxed so that you appear this way to him. And sooner or later, you are what you make yourself out to be. That's why lies are so powerful for good and evil. It can help you in life if you lie to yourself. Only on certain things. Like saying "I am calm" to yourself repeatedly does just that.
-Steven
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I agree that certain people are easier to talk to online, while others are easier in person. Some things you can do are:
Talk about common interests you have.
Ask him to go with you somewhere over the weekend.
Tell him how you feel about him.
Ask him about himself, get to know him.
Let him get to know you.
Just say what comes naturally. Think before you speak though, that way you do not say anything you will regret later. Once you get a conversation going, it will be easier and less awkward.
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