Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 11:15 pm
Ok there is this senior in my art class and I know him from our mothers because they work together.By the way I am a senior.I told my mom I think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and she said dont even try it.I wouldnt anyway because I only like him as a friend.Then on Friday he gave me his number and said call me if you want to hang out.I dont want to be mean but I want to hang out with him but I am afraid he will ask me out and I dont want to so does anyone know what I should if he does??Ill rate high for any answer
xpianogirl89x answered Sunday September 4 2005, 1:32 am: If you want to hang out with him then go for it! He may or may not like you.. He may just think you'd be fun to hang out with like you think of him.. You could try hanging out with him in a group so he gets the idea of "friends." but if you hang out alone and he does ask you out.. You may have to do the old "I like you as a friend but nothing more" line. It's harsh but it's the only way to get your message across. Good Luck!
sunnyville answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:20 am: There are options to this situation you could talk to him on the phone,tell him that you see him only as a friend and nothing more.Second option is invent any excuse what so ever to get you off to hanging out with him like you are busy or you're sick anything.Or when you will meet him somewhere always bring in somebody with you so you won't be alone. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:08 am: If you want to hang out with him, go ahead! I would just call him & say "Maybe we can hang out with a group of friends this weekend" that way he'll understand that you don't want to hang out with him alone. I'm sure he'll understand, but if he seems like he doesn't, just say something like "I'm glad we're hanging out. You're such a great friend". He should get the picture after that. Good luck hun!
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:51 pm: You should accept. But when you do say "Yeah we should hang out, we're friends right?" Use the word friend. He will probably get the picture. And after you guys hang out say something like I'm so glad we're friends. He'll then realize you just want to be friends. I hope I helped! [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
iiLOVEyoux0o answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:38 pm: dear asker♥ go and hang out with him, try to go somewhere that isn`t exactely "romantic" and maybe bring some friends along with you. you shouldn`t not hang out with him because you`re afraid he might make a move. hope i helped a bit.
andhearts answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:30 pm: well, if you like him back...hang out with him! dont be afraid if he will ask you out...because if he does...just say something like "well, idk...i kind of like being friends...sorry". its kind of confusing the way you said it... but does you mom like the kid?...it sounds like she doesnt know him, so i think you should hang out with him. sorry i dont quite understand. andi made it sound confusing. well, get back to me on what you do. and send some feedback and inbox. much love. good luck <3erica [ andhearts's advice column | Ask andhearts A Question ]
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