Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 7:15 pm
okay well i just got out of a relationship. and i like this other guy a lot. but he is taken .. and his girlfriend is one of my best friends. he also a very good friend. I am afraid if we did go out it would be weird. He alwayz tells me how he feels like he is getting distant from his girlfriend though. But everytime him and I get closer he mentions her. It seems like he has feelings for me too but is trying to convince himself he doesn't. what should i do ?
DazedAndConfused answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:33 pm: you should think of how you would feel if you were in his shoes..like for example lets say that you were with this one guy and your best friend liked him (wouldnt you get pissed if you found out) (wouldnt that make you guys lose the friendship over a guy )i say that let them be and after they broken up if your best friend moves on to another guy and shows no feelings for this guy then you can go for it [ DazedAndConfused's advice column | Ask DazedAndConfused A Question ]
sunnyville answered Saturday September 3 2005, 8:15 pm: Talk to him ask him if he has feelings for his girlfriend.If you find out he does like you then tell him you do too but that he would have to break up with her in order to be with you.If you choose to be with a guy who has a girlfriend you will be heading the wrong path and eventually somebody will spread rumors that you're going out with him and your friend will eventually find out one day so don't do that to your friend because that is betrayal.So think about this real well before making any decisions because you may regret things you do if you know what I mean. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
iiLOVEyoux0o answered Saturday September 3 2005, 7:30 pm: dear asker♥ well if she is your best friend, don`t get too close yet. and yes, it does sound like he has feelings for you. maybe he just needs some time to sort all those feelings out. why don`t you try to help him through this, let him know you care. i`m sure he would be very grateful and maybe he`d realize he likes you. hope i helped a bit.
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