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Help! My crazy ex-friend keeps calling me!
A few years back I had this friend who was really nice. But then after a while she started acting strange. If she saw me talking with another person she'd get all mad and butt in and tell them I was her best friend, and her only best friend. And then she started getting weird and always wanted me over, and if I couldn't come she'd start yelling at my Mom.
So my Mom made me break off the friendship with her in fear of my own health. I did. And she was devistated at the time, but when I changed schools and moved across town, I stopped hearing from her.
But now, three years later, she's sending me threatening mail, she's calling my house, and she won't stop IMing me on different accounts after I block her. I'm pretty creeped out, and I would go to the police, but she hasn't said anything too threatening. She's just calling me bad names and all that.
I really, really want her to stop. What should I do?
Thanks. Sorry this was so long!
~KaT
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Tell her to meet you somewhere so you can talk about but if she keeps doing it you should fight her!!!!!!
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In prefences it allows you to 'allow only users on your buddylist' so you can block her, set that, then she cant talk to you on IMs anymore. sorry i couldnt help more. * sara
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call the cops on that crazy bitch!!!!! lol
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but you relle should get help like maybe even from a teacher and they could call the other school and then the guidance could talk to her. i mean she obviously has some issues
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What you do is simply ask her to stop talking to you and bothering you. If she continues to talk and bother you, you file harassment charges on her. Make sure that you have hard proof showing when you told her to stop and how she continues to talk/harass you. That little bit will be enough to get her away from you.
-Steven
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You could try changing your screenname. Although it is really ridiculous to have to change your life around for some odd person. Just talk to her and let her know that if it doesn't stop then you are going to go to the police because it's getting out of control. You haven't done anything so awful to her and if she hadn't been such a controlling friend then you guys could still be friends. You could ask an adult, such as your school counselor, if there is anything the police can do such as a protection order where if she contacts you she can be in trouble. I'm sure everything will get worked out. =] Good Luck & God Bless!
<3 -- *Ashley*
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This is harassment, and you can file a restraining order for it, and she could potentially be arrested. Do something about it!!
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Thats ok i understand why its long,
If she keeps on threatining you call the police,
My sister had the same propblem.And she called the police.But why would she bother after 3 years right? well i hope everything works out ok
Hope i helped:-)
Kate05♥
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I think that you should avoid her as much as you can and if you just can then I would go and talk to her and her mom in person to get her to stop. But if you don't feel cofterable I would just talk over the phone! I hope I was useful! If I wasn't drop one in my box! :)
~Brittany~
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Even if she hasn't said anything too threatening, that doesn't mean that she won't say or do something. I would contact the police. What she's doing is harassment & if its scaring you, it needs to stop before it gets any worse. She sounds like she needs counseling if shes going to act like this. Good luck with everything & if you need anything else, don't hesitate to leave it in my inbox. I hope everything works out for you.
x33 ;; Always,
ADViCEx4xY0U =]
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