me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
please help me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? THA_PRiNCESZ631 answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 9:48 pm: uhm im sorry to break it to you .. but your pregnant . thats what i have .. you get really bad pains in the lower area like by were your bladder would be .. you get nausous/stomach ach [ spelling ] after you eat .. and yeah you can buy prengnancy tests without your mom knowing. and if it comes out positive go to a planned parent hood & make an appointment for a P-CAP [ insurences so you dont have to pay for the abortion witch costs about 500$ ] & then make an appointment for an abortion. if you want you can talk to me on aim ; THAl0VE0FYAliFE. cause im having my abortion on the 22nd of this month & ill tell you everything you need to no =] i hope i helped [ THA_PRiNCESZ631's advice column | Ask THA_PRiNCESZ631 A Question ]
passionx0x answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:00 am: You really need to be checked by your doctor, if you can't do this, go to a teen clinic or get a pregnancy test and go from there. 3 months is a long time and you need to find out asap. If you are pregnant you need to tell your parents so they can help you right away. Waiting to tell them probably wouldn't be a good thing to do in your situation. Your so young and you need to go to a doctor and discuss your options. Good luck. Write me back if you need support. =] [ passionx0x's advice column | Ask passionx0x A Question ]
PANiCxATxTHExDiSCO answered Saturday July 22 2006, 2:13 pm: If you can get a pregnancy test without her knowing then go get one.
xoKimFryeox answered Thursday July 20 2006, 12:45 am: Well, as much as its not good to have sex at 15, you did and you cant change that. Have your boyfriend go out and buy you a pregnancy test, if he wont, then hey, that shows hes not a very good guy to be with.
Go out and buy a test. If it comes back positive, go to planned parenthood and talk out the possible solutions. At planned parenthood, they keep your information COMPLETELY confidential, so you will not need to worry.
Next time, DO NOT have sex without a condom, its just not a good risk to take. [ xoKimFryeox's advice column | Ask xoKimFryeox A Question ]
Sadie63341 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 10:14 pm: First of all, "taking a risk" is putting it lightly. I got pregnant at 15 and believe me your boyfriend isn't going to stick around - so taking that risk means absolutely NOTHING to him.
What has been done can't be reversed but you had better get a pregnancy test - QUICK. If you ARE pregnant, you need prenatal care. I know it would be hard to talk to your mom but honestly you should, so she can put you on birth control. You might be surprised at how she reacts. Most moms will be OK with it after the initial shock wears off. Explain to her you'd rather not get pregnant and basically you're going to have sex one way or another so she might as well put you on the pill (or whatever form you choose).
Also, you're FIFTEEN. You can get to a store and get a pregnancy test without your mom knowing if you had time to have SEX without your mom knowing. [ Sadie63341's advice column | Ask Sadie63341 A Question ]
Melody answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:51 pm: I really don't want to scare you, but it sounds like you probably are pregnant. First of all, if it's been three months you need to watch what you eat, what you do, ect. At least until you know for sure. The first trimester is the time when the baby is at the highest risk. Get your boyfriend to get you a pregnancy test as soon as possible. You can take it in a public restroom and you rmom would never know. If you are pregnant, and decide to keep the baby, you'll eventually have to tell your mom. So yea, be prepared. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Ask_Little_Brittany_123 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 2:23 am: first of all: if you haven't started your periods at all, don't worry. it might be just worrying. if you have had periods before you had sex, and you haven't had one for three months, you are likely to be pregnant, although im not a specialist on the subject. Those pains could be a serious problem and you wouldn't know it unless you went to the doctor. i would suggest though getting a pregnancy test. if you are pregnant, recognize your mistake in front of your mom and/or dad.
And please, next time, use a condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Ask_Little_Brittany_123's advice column | Ask Ask_Little_Brittany_123 A Question ]
wretchedmelody answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 12:36 am: You need to get your boyfriend to go with you and get you a home pregnancy test; or find a free pregnancy testing center.
If you recently had sex, especially unprotected sex, and haven't had a period - you are quite possibly pregnant.
I would suggest telling your mom though. I know you're only fifteen, but if you are pregnant.. she'll find out. Your mom is the best person to turn to, even if you don't think she'll understand - she probably will. Your mom cares about you and will be able to give you some of the best and insightful insight to being pregnant.
karenR answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:55 pm: Make the boyfriend get you one. Better yet find a free clinic. If you haven't had your period for 3 months, chances are real good that you are pregnant.
Pains in your stomach and headaches are not signs of pregnancy but no period sure is. It may be a good idea just to tell your mom because she will find out soon if you are. Here is a website
that may help you some. :)
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