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an intresting past
hey,
i have a question that has been stumping me for a while now and i was hoping you all could possibly help me on my lil situation. so here is the question
when you loose a friend who was really close to you a friend that called you a name and you called them one as in nicknames and it seems that they have forgotten you but you know you will never forget them and you will do everything to try to have the realtionship even if it is a friend that is a minor
how would you come about trying to regain a friendship of the past???
like how would you attempt to get a friendship with a person of the past. even if you mesed up in the past but have changed now. how can you try to find somthing in that person for them to notice you???
if you can answer anything on this then please do. any help is greatfully thanked.
you are all amazing people and god bless to you all.
monn
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I know what it feels like to lose your best friend. I've moved around a lot and I've lost two of my best friends that I will NEVER forget. Great friends never forget about one another. Just know that. But you've got to remeber that friendships can't last forever. Friends come and go. As we grow up, we change and start to have different interests. If you can find what your friend is interested in, try and set up an activity to do together. Remember the first time you guys met and there was the one thing that was the most memoriable thing you guys did together? Why don't you do that?
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Why don't you call and tell this friend that something has been bothering you? Tell him/her that you've changed and you don't understand why such a strong friendship was broken over one silly mistake. Be sincere.
This same thing happened to my best friend. She walked up to the girl and confronted her about it and asked to be friends again. She no. She kinda walked into it too fast.
Maybe if you see him/her around town or in the halls at school flash a smile and make him/her think about why you did it. Ease into it. Then once you know that this person noticed you, confront them or call them up. If I were you I would call on the phone. It's just easier that way. Plus you can write down what you want to say and have it in front of you!
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Dear Monn,
I would be brave and go and talk or call this friend of the past and tell them that you have changed and you are not the same person that you used to be.
giver19
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well just talk to them if there not willing
to forgive than maby there friendship
is not worth your pain.
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