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for 5 months i couldn't bring myself to the make the moves on my boyfriend. and he never made them. so we didnt do very much of anything. but now we broke up and im dating a new guy name justin. and i really like justin and he asked meout. but everyones sayin that if i date him he's just goina fuck me and then once hes got that hes goina be done with me. and that makes me nervous but for once i actually think im ready to have sex for the first time, because i like justin that much, but everything everyones sayin about his reputation and stuff just makes me nervous. i dont wanna give it up to him just to have him be in it to say he fucked me first.
any ideas ... ? (link)
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well don't tell him he's your first.
i know this guy named justin and he has the
same rep. but he can be really nice when he
want's to be.
don't let him have you easy.
or he might leave.
play hard to get.
don't let him in.
chances are if you don't let him.
he will eather get hooked and always try really
hard to impress you.
or he'll get mad at you.
and if he dose get mad
you'll know his rep was right.
and throw him away.
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There is a girl at school i like but she only thinks of me as a friend. what should i do? (link)
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i think you should tell her.
cause if she's really your friend
it should be cool.
it might be kinda acwerd for her.
but hey all great loves start out
as friendship's.
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15/f
okies hey
i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.
is this too young for me?
please help. xxx (link)
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don't worry about it.
boy's always date older girls.
hmmm.
if you really like him.
and he really likes you.
i see no problem.
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ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)
he stares into my eyes a lot
he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him
in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.
he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet
he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine
we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might
when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.
but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.
so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?
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well dugh HE LIKES YOU!
or he's a player.
HE PUT HIS HEAD IN YOUR LAP.
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I'll start dating a guy and it only lasts from like 2 weeks to one day. I get bored really easily and I need adventure and excitement. All the guy's I date bore me. They can't keep up with me either. If I date a guy I like to make out and if I'm dating him for a week and we haven't even kissed yet i'll just brake up with them because None of them ever have anything interesting to say or do, and I don't know. What should I do? I hate being single, like i'll date almost any losser so i'm not alone, but then I'll just dump them like a week later because they are sooooo boring!!!! What should I do??? Please halp. Thanks a bunch!~!~! (link)
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well look for a punk guy.
like the ones who ride motter bikes and stuff
like that. ummm.
or gut an adventureous guy.
there easy to find. well they are at my school.
get the class clown.
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What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely (link)
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it means you act like you wana do like makeout or whatever.
but then when someone tries and you wont do it.
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I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!! (link)
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well just open up.
be come friends.
shyness is like an illness.
it spreads. if your to shy to
talk to this guy.
he'll think you don't like him.
and it'll be acuard.
ummm. pretend your in a movie or a book.
be the main carachter and be brave.
do what that person would do.
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All my best friends have gotten into weed. I'm not like that, so I've shifted to a new group of friends. Now one of my other good friends, who doesn't do weed, all of her "group" is into it too.
She so scared, and she pretty much has no friends now cause she's not into that stuff and they hate her now cause she isn't doing it too.
I'm her friend, but theyre in her classes and I'm not. How do I help her get thru this. She's starting to show symptoms of depression from this too. (link)
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you just need to be there for her.
stand up to the crack heads.
they can't hurt you.
your the one in control.
not them it's your life.
theve already lost there's
there as good as dead.
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i think my boyfriend loves my best friend and i think she also loves him. i have tried asking my boyfriend questions like if me and him werent going out then who would he go out with and he mentioned her straight away. they are always talking and gettin on even sumtyms mor than me and him do. i feel quite hurt inside but i want to sumhow get proof if he really does love her and if she loves him too before i start thinking of breaking up with him because i luv him so much. please reply back soon x x thanks x (link)
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i see were your getting at.
and i think you and your friend first.
and see how she really feels.
but you might as well leave it before you
get hurt. cause nothing can stop true love not even death.
have you hurd that saying
if you truly love something let it go.
if it comes back it was always yours.
if not it was never worth it.
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Whenever I come back from a vacation with my family, my one friend (Jaime) always has these inside jokes with my other really good friend in her profile and websites and stuff. I don't get it cause she never does that when I am home but when I am away, she does. Why does she do that? Is she trying to make me jealous or something? Cause when all three of us are hanging out she will say an inside joke and I will just sit there cause I'm not part of it. Should I talk to her about it? (link)
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well maby you should make your own inside joke.
or be the nice person and tell her how you feel.
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I don't know if this goes here.....but...oh well.
I have been getting occasional cramps (not stomach area cramps, lower abdomen cramps) and discharge. My breasts are slightly tender, but nothing major, and im starting to grow more, i think. Im almost to 100 pounds, and i will confess i have been a little moody...are these signs that my period will start soon?
Please help me!!!! (link)
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yep your right period time.
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hey,
i have a question that has been stumping me for a while now and i was hoping you all could possibly help me on my lil situation. so here is the question
when you loose a friend who was really close to you a friend that called you a name and you called them one as in nicknames and it seems that they have forgotten you but you know you will never forget them and you will do everything to try to have the realtionship even if it is a friend that is a minor
how would you come about trying to regain a friendship of the past???
like how would you attempt to get a friendship with a person of the past. even if you mesed up in the past but have changed now. how can you try to find somthing in that person for them to notice you???
if you can answer anything on this then please do. any help is greatfully thanked.
you are all amazing people and god bless to you all.
monn
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well just talk to them if there not willing
to forgive than maby there friendship
is not worth your pain.
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Okay i have a huge problem, my ex, JC and i just broke up a month ago and we're back to being the best of friends, of course nobody knows that we we were going out. Well anyways we're both hoping to be in the same class, not because we still like eachother but because, well.. long story: Before we met JC was very close to a drop out at age 14. He was all about summit and I.S.S. and bullying others. And before we met i was the goody good teacher's pet. Then JC was switched to my class, and he had to sit by me. The next day i gave the counselor a note from the teacher and JC was there. the counselor remembered me from last years award of Student of the year, so he assigned me to be JC's private tudor. So every day we had to stay after school in the cafeteria. After three days of tudoring, everything happened. He started getting B's and i started acting up. We started hanging out as if we were going, but we weren't, but everyone thought we were. Well school was almost the only place that we could be with eachother, then in the summer we hooked up. Now we're scared if we go back to being the baddest and nicest in the school again.what should we do if we're separated?
P.S. Can't hook up because of parents, they hate eachother, and because of friends, i know stupid, but friends will tell lies to us saying that we said it. (link)
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well frist that you would make shakespear proud.
second who gives a crack about your parents think.
and you can still hang out and tutor.
if your not in the same class.
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what is your opinion on a 16 year old girl going out with or liking a 14 year old guy. i turn 17 in may but this guy will be turning 15 in january. soo yeaaah..too young? i know it seems like it kind of but i have such strong feelings for him (link)
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i don't really think your to old after all.
i'm 13 and i have a crush on a 15 year old.
but than agian i look 14.
but it dosen't really matter if you really
care for each other than what anyone else thinks
shouldn't matter.
but i wouldn't do an age different
that's more than 3 years
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I want to do my hair on the frist day of school, but i have no clue for something to do. What are good ways to put my hair. Be specific and give complete steps, please. If possible add a link of a website that shows or tells you how.
P.s. I don't have short hair but not long. My hair crosses my shoulders, but not my elbows. (link)
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well my hair's short
and well just out of the way.
i guess it's a stile
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well ok im really scared to go to schol this thursday cuz well thats my first day.. and im a sophmore this yr... and i've had alot of problems last yr w/ other people.. i kinda caused them.. and this past sunday this girl wouldn't stop yelling my name when i went to school to get my schedule and stuff.. and my parents thought she was being ,ean to me.. but i don't no e if she was or what... and then that day i went bike riding these guys who go to my school kept shouting my name... and they said they thought i wu z hot... its not that i mind its just that i feel like they do that b/c they don't like me... just like alot of other people at my school... so could someone help me please!!! (link)
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don't worry about it.
if people yell your name.
go and ask them what they want.
if it's the guys you mentioned.
act flatered.
guys are just stupid.
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My friend and I were talking the other day and the subject of food and weight came up. She says one way she looses weightand keeps it off and still gets to 'taste' whatever she wants is by chewing up the food and then spitting it out. Now, she doesnt do this for everything, just like chocolate and candy ect. Not like apples and everything healthy...but I was wondering if this really works, or does the fatty stuff still get in your body. Thanks. (link)
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if she dose that for more than just candy
she can get really sick.
and spitting out your food it nasty.
what will she do if her boyfriend byes her ice cream.
ewww but if your really that desperate yes it works.
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My friend told me he started smoking weed so I want to know how bad it is. Is smoking weed considered a drug? And is it worse then ciggarettes? And is it addictive? Any more info about it would be appreciated! (link)
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well it is a verry adictive durg.
that makes you high of loopy.
i'm not sure if it's worse than smokeing
but i sugest you stay away from weed.
and him if or when he's smokeing.
he can probubly get really mean.
be carfull.
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hey everyone... well ok i have a problem see i like my friend daniel... and we use to talk alot on the phone and he lives in arizona... but u see my phone line got canceled...and the only way i can call him is by using my dad, mom or my brothher's phone... but ican't tell im going to call him cuz if they find out i calll a boy they will kill me!!! so yeah what should i do? (link)
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well i feel for you.
i think you should tell your parents straight
up.
if you really like daniel they should understand.
and your brother must have a stick up his ass.
if you can't call boys he can't call girls eather.
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Hereit goes. Ok, so i started liking this guy last year after our youth group went on a retreat thing to the mountains(last winter. He's 18 now and i'll be 16 in December. Well, I liked him the whole rest of the year. I kinda liked him before that like last fall, but it grew to what i thought was love. Ok, so i told him when he graduated through a letter because i was afraid of confrontation face to face. He wrote me back (he's traveling this summer.) and the letter was pretty open ended,not no, but not yes. Well he's coming back in a few weeks and im excited, but scared at the same time. The thing is. There's also this guy that everyone thinks likes me. He's sweet and all and im strangely attracted to him, but weirded out at the same time. So does that mean I don't like the guy from my youth group? or am i just moving on because i think it's hopeless? What do I do when he comes back? sorry for the length (link)
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i think you should write a book.jk
ok not funny umm the first guy proly didn't
answer you straight up cause he thinks your
to young.
you need to confront the other guy and
ask him if he really likes you.
than go with him.
when the other guy comes back.
say it was just a fling.
sorry if i didn't help
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