ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)
he stares into my eyes a lot
he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him
in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.
he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet
he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine
we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might
when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.
but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.
so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?
MelLeDisko answered Monday August 14 2006, 1:50 am: :]
I wish I had a guy do that stuff to me, ha anyways.
It sounds to me like he likes you, but he might still like that other girl also. Which is why I think you should flirt around a bit. Not like, heavily flirting, just light flirting. Like And try to get to know eachother better so you're feelings for eachother could grow even more. Like, when you guys are swimming and playing sharks and minnows, you can flick a little water at him and just swim around with him. And if he blows in your face, blow back. Don't like, HUFF. Just do a little blow, ha. And then after awhile or getting to know eachother and flirting and etc., tell him how you're feeling. It's better to get it out there instead of never knowing. I hope I helped! <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Sunday August 13 2006, 11:44 pm: I'm kinda going through the exact same thing. This one boy is so shy around me, but talks to every flippin girl besides me. & junk. But, anyway.. i most deff. think he likes you. Like I'm 98% sure. That, thing with the other girl, just doesn't make me sure..that he likes you & only you. He may like that other girl a little more.. maybe, i dno. Just flirt with him alot. Or just tell him. Personnaly i hate waiting around & wondering if someone likes me.
aquababe1 answered Sunday August 13 2006, 10:44 pm: AH!!!!!! lol he totally likes you. its so hard to see for yourself because nobody can ever see themselves clearly but daaaaaamn. it sounds like he likes you and is just waiting for you to do something or make a move. hes probably just shy or whatever. i liked this guy for 2 years and never did anything and i wish i did because now that i look back on it, it's so obvious he did like me. you have to just go for it, because you wouldnt want to do what i did and look back and think "what if". do it for yourself and your happiness...and just flirt back or do something thats pretty obvious you like him but without saying it. you could laugh and look into his eyes and smile, and then look down and look back up again. or if youre eating food together smear some on his nose or something and be all playful...im sure you can think of stuff.
good luck!! [ aquababe1's advice column | Ask aquababe1 A Question ]
hyperNerd05 answered Sunday August 13 2006, 9:22 pm: That could be his silly little way of flirting.Just flirt back but dont be annoying. Dont hang on him or be next to him all the time. Unless you guys are really good friends and acting a little distant would be odd for you guys.Good luck
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