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im confused.
for 5 months i couldn't bring myself to the make the moves on my boyfriend. and he never made them. so we didnt do very much of anything. but now we broke up and im dating a new guy name justin. and i really like justin and he asked meout. but everyones sayin that if i date him he's just goina fuck me and then once hes got that hes goina be done with me. and that makes me nervous but for once i actually think im ready to have sex for the first time, because i like justin that much, but everything everyones sayin about his reputation and stuff just makes me nervous. i dont wanna give it up to him just to have him be in it to say he fucked me first.
any ideas ... ?
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I seriously dont think you should be with this guy.When it comes to sex,if he has a bad reputation then dump him.If they said that hes gonna have sex with you then leave you,then hes obviously done it a million times and can pass you STD's.Youre gonna be very heartbroken when you do it with him and end up pregnant with STDs and he dumps you.Im pretty sure you can find someone better than that.
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well don't tell him he's your first.
i know this guy named justin and he has the
same rep. but he can be really nice when he
want's to be.
don't let him have you easy.
or he might leave.
play hard to get.
don't let him in.
chances are if you don't let him.
he will eather get hooked and always try really
hard to impress you.
or he'll get mad at you.
and if he dose get mad
you'll know his rep was right.
and throw him away.
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You're not going to like my answer but here it is. Liking someone a lot is not a reason to have sex w/someone. Sharing the most precious gift you have to offer is for someone who you are passionately in love with and will respect how precious a gift this is. Justin doesn't sound like someone who respects this. If you withhold this precious gift for that person sex will be one of the most beautiful experiences of your life and you will always remember it that way. If you have sex with someone who has a reputation like Justin and he does leave you afterwards you will feel devastated and used. You may even end up having anger associated w/sex. You will not have as special of an experience or memory as you can have and will regret that you did it with Justin. Hold off until you have a deep emotional bond with someone that is deeper than you've ever felt in your life. If you do this you will be happy that you did. Also, withholding from Justin is one way to see what his true motives are. If he gives up quickly and moves on down the road to other pastures than you will see that all he was after in the first place was another conquest. Keep in mind that you have friends who are warning you about him. They don't want to see you hurt and have your best interest at heart. But, I wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide to do!
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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If your having any problems deciding rather to have sex or not dont.I know it seems like you really like this guy not but wate untill you love him.Dont rush into sex it wont be good.
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