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Im 15 F and a virgin. lol i was wondering, how bad do you think it would be if i had sex with a guy if im dating him for about 4 months.. Also what if this guy was my first boyfriend and first kiss ?
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Perhaps you are rushing things. 4 months isnt the longest period of time. And it being that its your first boyfriends and first kiss. Maybe you should consider waiting. Your still yet 15. Theres plenty of to have sex. Just give it a bit more time. think it over. who knows you could regret it.
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First off, I'd like to say no one on this site can decide for you whether or not you should have sex. Sex is something personal and it needs to be up to you.
That being said, it's also something extremely serious that you need to put a lot of thought into it. A fifteen year old who has dated a boy for a total of four months probably does not know much about love yet. The majority of people need to wait a very long time before they can be sure if they really love a person or not. Furthermore, you DO need to love the person you lose your virginity to because a piece of you will be attached to you for life. Your best bet really is to wait. You hear of people regretting losing their virginity all the time, but have you ever heard of someone regretting waiting? Probably not.
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i'm going to agree with durchdenmonsun. 4 months isnt even long enough to determine if your bf is going to just hit and run. but i'm going to have to say that it is YOUR CHOICE. if you really want to do it, at least be responsible so you dont end up with bad diseases or become a 15 yr old pregnant teenager. you might think little of it but when it happens you will regret it. 5 yrs later from now, you'd regret not saving your virginity to the one you'll really love and think "why did i ever give it up to that jerk".
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Just how bad of an idea that is can only be matched by how dumb of an idea it is.
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You're fifteen, a female and a virgiin. It would be horrible for you to give your virginity away to someone you've only been dating for four months, even if he is your first bf/first kiss. You're so young, you have to much going for you to give away your virginity so some boy who probably wouldn't care if you got pregnant or something. and what if you did get pregnant? if you're school is like mine, and you're in any extra curricular activities, you won't be able to do them. you'll be screwed in jobs and stuff. And you'll probably end up raising the poor baby by yourself. I would say, yes it would be bad. But then again, it's not my life. i can't stop you, but i don't think you should.
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