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Pain during sex
I've recently started to have sex(him and I have both been checked out, no STD's). When we have sex he obviously likes to touch my g-spot(i think the clitoris is also known as) but when he does I get a really strong sensation going through my body that literally makes my knees and my body go weak and I cant handle it so i make him stop and because im afraid of what might happen if i let him continue. How can I be able to handle the feeling when he does it?
Another thing is, He likes me to be on top and I say yes, but it hurts ALOT more than being on bottom. I've been on top quite a few times and I dont seem to be getting any use to it because it still hurts everytime. Is there any way I can get used to the pain or make it become less painful?
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Your g-spot and clitoris are two different things. Your clitoris is a topical nerve ending. It's not actually inside of your vagina, whereas your g-spot is. Both feel good when stimulated though.
When your boyfriend hits your g-spot, it should feel good, not painful. Depending on the positions you two are in when you get this painful sensation, he could be hitting your cervix. If he penetrates you too deep, then it is painful.
If being on top hurts, don't get in that position. If you lay down on your boyfriend as opposed to sitting straight up on top of him, it doesn't hurt as bad.
Also, always use the bathroom before having sex. That helps a lot.
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Hello,well the clitoris is not the g-spot,every women does not have a g-spit but the pleasue it has is very powerful.However,the clitoris has tons of nerve endings that can cause intense pleasure and clitoral stimulation usually leads to an orgasm,what you are feeling when he stimulates your clitoris is this extreme pleasure before and probably when you are habing an orgasm,this pleasure is what sex is all about the pleasure can be very intense for some women where they can take it anymore,Nothing bad will happen if he continued,the pleasure would just continue or increase.About being on top,you dont have to do it everytine he asks you,its you choice to if you dont want to then tell him,he may not know that this postion causes you pain if he did he would probably not ask as much.The pain may subside in time once you get use to it but if the postion you are in isnt comfortable then you may want to change it up to find something that will be pleasurable for the both of you.Communication is key in any relationship snd if you cant communicate that you are in pain or what you like or dont like then it makes it difficult,both of you should enjoy the sex that you have,if one of you is in pain then it is not as enjoyable.So just try to be honest and tell your partner exactly what you want or dont want it will be very beneficial!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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