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how to tell if your not just another hook up!!
i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time?
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Sorry but you were tricked by another jerk. He said the right things, did the right stuff and made you feel like you were a queen and totally took advantage of that. Typically 3 to 5 days is the max time a guy should wait to call back. Just be careful and don't let the next guy charm your pants off. Good luck.
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Unfortunately he probably did use you. My advice to you is that you should probably start actually getting to know the guys you are interested in before you sleep with them ....And don't think you have to put out to get a guy to like you, just because he's willing to have sex with you doesn't mean he cares about you, and he surely won't have any respect for you as you can see with this guy. I know this sounds harsh, but you can't sleep with a guy and expect him to view you as anything more than ass. If he does call again it will probably only be because he wants to hook up again, and that isn't a trap you want to get into. I know it sucks but lose this guy, and next time if you sleep with a guy right away don't expect anything to come of it.
Good luck
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Im sorry to say it seems to me as though you were just a hook up. When a guy likes you, and wants to see you again, you`d have heard from him by now.
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Well to be honest, it sounds like you were just another hook up.. Its already been two weeks. If he really wanted to see you and be more he would have contacted you by now.. He can't possibly be that busy. I mean not even a text message. Unfortunately I feel that he's a jerk and he used you but if you really believe there was something I'd wait another week and then move on. I wasn't there that night so I don't know how he acted but from what you've told me it sounds like he's blowing you off. Sorry. Good luck! Hope I helped.. x
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