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Not sure who my best friend is anymore.
So lately my friend has become really close with a girl from her work. She hasn't blown me off for her, but she's postponed our plans a few hours later several times lately. And while doing this, she was arranging plans with the other girl, although she's not aware that I know this.
Today, we were hanging out and she informed that she needed to be home early because she had college work to do. So an hour after I find out that she's at her house. I can't help by being slightly offended by this and I'm wondering if I should confront her?
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i went through the same thing.
the thing i did wrong was not let her know and that made the problem worse because it kept on happening.
dont make my mistake.
call her or ask her to come over and talk about it with her it will make you guys closer and you will feel so much better.
if u have any questions just ask :) ! gooodluck
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Same thing happened to me a few years back. You need to talk to her and tell her that it's bothering you. You have every right to be annoyed with her, she's postponing plans you had before her and this other girl had. It's not right. Talk with her about it, and tell her your offended and if she keeps doing it, you don't want to hangout with her anymore. That's what I did, and the girl finally stopped. Suggest maybe all 3 of you hanging out together.
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Don't you hate it when girls get clicky like this? We all do it at one point or another, but it always hurts someone. You should definitely say something to her since she is your good friend. Let her know that it hurts your feelings to be shoved aside so much more lately. She might be a little offended first, but hopefully she'll see your side if you really tell her how you feel. Maybe you could offer to hang out with her and her other friend from work too, to create a larger group and that way time doesn't have to be split between anyone :)
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