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What would this mean?
There's these two guys who I'm good friends with.
One of them is my ex, but now my best male friend.
The other one is just a really good friend.
I admit that I flirt with the second one quite a bit, I kinda like him..in THAT way..but I'm not sure at the moment.
Now quite a few people have been asking me whether I'm getting back together with my ex, since we hang around a lot..and I tell them no.
But what's bothering me is that a lot of people have asked me if I'm dating the second guy.
Would you say they assume that from the way we behave towards each other? Would it be a good sign in a way if people thought that we were together?
Thanks.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Don't let it bother you. Just simply tell
them you're friends, which you are.
It probably wouldn't be wise to let them
think you're together. For one thing it
might get back to him. If he thinks you
are telling them that, it might make him
mad. You want to avoid that.
Tell him what they are asking you. See
what he has to say about it. If he does
have those kinds of feelings for you, he
may get the courage to say so!
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It could be a good sign, but it could also simply be their curiosity. I have a lot of guy friends (and a boyfriend) but I've been asked many times if I'm dating my friends. Being comfortable around a guy (or guys) and joking around/spending time together may be interpreted as a relationship to some people.
So, by their noticing something, they're picking up on the fact that you two seem to get along very well. Which, in most cases, would be a good thing I'd assume.
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