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my good friend tries too hard...
17 yr. female..
my good friend..i just became good friends with her this year and like everytime she is around people she acts differently and tries to impress people too much! and she tries to be friends with everyone and anyone..its not a bad thing but sometimes its just too much...and she always flirts with my good friend nick(keep in mind i have liked him for about a year and a half) but he has a girlfriend and she always is like yeah take a picture with me..ahh he is so hot..she always like sits on top of him and slaps his butt and stuff..she doesnt know i like him but she still shouldnt be doing that with someone who has a girlfriend!! and everytime that me him and her hangout she totally ignores me and just talks to him..im like ookay?! cool....dont talk to me then...and she tries to tell everyone that they are such good friends and I AM THE ONE that is best friends with him...and she has her myspace pic of him and her...and like everyone commented it saying ooh who is that ;) and its just so annoying! i dont really wanna talk to her about it cuz i dont want everyone to know that i like him (nobody does know ) but how can i just calm her down..make her different...have her not try so hard to impress people..ive always made comments to let her know how i feel about stuff but it never changes..
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i think you should talk to the dude. you gotta tell him that he has a girlfriend and he shouldn't act like he doesn't. and maybe talk to your friend about their actions and how annoying it is for you. she might say that you're jealous or something but if she does, she's just not a good friend.
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What it really seems like, is she just wants attention...badly. She seems like she changes her attitude to fit the people around her so they like her better. It's annoying, but a lot of girls are this way, I hve noticed. Just ask her when you are alone, why it seems like she changes herself whenever certain people come around. If she asks, what are you talking about, bring up these examples. How you bring it up will matter the most.
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