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slut..?
okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.)
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You are 15, and I understand that you don't want people telling you what to do. But honestly, you are still pretty much a kid. I don't understand why you would actually feel the need to be considered a slut. When you get older, it may become difficult for you to get into a serious relationship. Boys may like "sluts" to fool around with, but those aren't the type of girls they like to build relationships with. You should enjoy the rest of your childhood, make sure your life is going somewhere good by focusing on school, and give up hope of wanting to become a slut. Just think about it, do you want guys to not actually like you because of the person you are, but because you put out? Oh, and not to mention, other girls will dislike you for it. Hopefully, you come to your senses.
Good Luck.
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Don't be a slut, be yourself and attract the attention of guys without giving it up. Trust me, that kind of attention is far more pleasing than the bashing you'll get from both girls and guys at your age if you become promiscuous. AND...it's not going to be enjoyable for you, most guys your age are clueless...
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that's not wierd at all. i'm the same way. you really don't have to try hard at all to get the reputation. just do what you do. haha. it'll get around. maybe change the way you dress too if you don't already dress like it.
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I don't think it's the best thing for you to try getting attention by being "slutty-ish".
If you are doing this to get attention from boys, then rid the idea from your mind. Guys like girls who are themselves and definatly not a slut. Yes, there are some guys that like this type of girl, but they aren't worth your time and they most likely won't care much about you other than being that type of girl.
Now..If that is completly different than what your thinking then try this; Join a drama group at school or take up some other kind of performing art. You will be controling your love for attention in a positive way.
I hope everything works out for you! =]
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nobody really WANTS to be a slut but they turn into it to get attention... so i guess you're in that kind of situation. it's not.... really normal nor strange.. but... you being 15.. you need to find another way to get attention.
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A lot of people love attention. Being a slut really won't get you much. You will get used more than attention. It would most likely be negative attention at that. Why would you want that? I does sound quite strange, defidently not normal. That question made me sad just reading it. :/
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