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to sum it up, i'm kind of amazing :]
Website: myspace!
Gender: Female
Location: charleston, sc!
Occupation: hostess at olympian grill
Age: 15
AIM: meeeelanie
Member Since: March 1, 2007
Answers: 16
Last Update: September 4, 2007
Visitors: 1479


i like this boy named donald ray ive like him since last year everytime i walk by him he says my name in the sweetest way but i think everybody is bugging him and now to get him to speak to me he has to be away from his friend and im usually at where he works he walks me out to the car and packs my moms grocerys im shy what should i do? (link)
ask him to hangout sometime!! :]


Hey, I'm planning on getting my haircut soon but I want some pictures to show the person at the salon. The style I want is layered hair with side bangs but I still want it long enough to put into a ponytail.

Can anyone give me some links for pictures? (link)
just look at scene people on myspace. haha. they always have good pictures for hair.


i am 13 and my mom is a slut. She brings at least five guys a day. when she gets drunk and pass out. the man comes to my room. it is really scary for me. i can never have anyone over my house. My boyfriend really wants to do it with me, but i say no and he doesn't understand why. i don't want to end up like my mother. But i really love my boyfriend. What should i do. i need an outlet. (link)
sweetie, just because you have sex with your boyfriend does not in ANY WAY mean that you will EVER turn out like your mother.
you have control and you know that you don't want to turn out like her.
so if you ever feel yourself getting out of control, stop yourself before anything gets too serious, like in your mom's case.


what are some music videos with good dancing in it?
like pussycatdolls/destinys child stuff like that. (link)
dude, missy elliot has some crazy dancing. haha.


14/f
we have been together for over a year, me and my boy. my boyfriend is basically the most popular boy in school, good looking, active and sweet. me, im active but i'm not a geek nor popular. i'm just you know, average. i'm not really skinny or really fat, and i'm not gorgeous or ugly either. anyways we were talking today about our ex boy/girl friends and parties we have attended && such. so then he was telling me, "at parties i would always be flirting with a hot girl and in like five minutes making out with them" then that kinda ticked me off, but it's true. before he was with me, i went to same partys with him and he could/did. i'm not gonna lie i've made out at parties too but not like in five minutes and stuff. so i went home and i guess i'm kinda jealous of him. the thing is though, he loves me, and i mean alot, why else would he go out with a flat chested girl for more then a year. dont get me wrong, i love him too. but since he told me that i guess i'm just jealous, jealous of all the girls that have ever kissed him, and when i kissed him goodbye, in my mind all i could think about was all those girls who have touched his lips. basically, how can i get over this, jealousy i have? opinons or comments are appreciated =/ (link)
just knowing that he doesn't even care about those girls anymore should help you get over that. he really doesn't, all he cares about is you. that's just part of his past. you're his present, sweetie.


Okay i am just going to get straight to the point.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 2 months and we were always such a close couple never argue never fight nothing but the all of a sudden she would start getting mad at me for every little thing that i would do and wont let me hang out with my friends without getting mad nothing.

But there is this girl we will call her "3"

So 3 and I have been talking and she likes me and all and she says that it is stupid how My girlfriend treats me and that she would never treat me like that she understands that i love my girlfriend and everything so she is not mad that i wont break up with her. But the thing is I can't handle how my girlfriend is treating me. It has been going on for a few months and she says she isn't doing anything wrong but thats not the truth its like she don't see the error of her ways. And the question is How do i break up with her?

I have always told her i would never leave her no matter what and i will always love her. But now that she has started treating me like this i see things a bit differently. And we have such a strong bond with each other just im not happy anymore. How do i let her know i want to break up? please help me. (link)
just tell her, be like if you really don't want to lose me, then stop acting the way you are. you should give her a chance to change her ways.


14/f
5'6"
123 pounds

alright so i used to be able to fight off all my craving but then i went to my dads house and ate like a disgusting pig. i lost like 7 pounds this summer and then i gained like two back. so how do i fight off cravings? (link)
when you feel a craving coming on, just go do something else. it's hard, i know, i go through the same thing. but trust me, just GET AWAY from the kitchen. go occupy yourself with something else. trust me, you'll be so happy with the results and you'll feel alot better about yourself.


I really like this guy and right now we are just texting each other, well I am going to watch him race saturday. I havent heard from him since monday. Should I be worried or not? I mean he could be busy working or just tired am I losing my mind? (link)
nah, don't be worried. he's probably just busy with school and work and whatnot. the same thing is actually happening to me right now, but i know for a fact that he's ignoring me hah :[
but if you haven't tried calling or texting him yourself, do it!
good luck sweetie :]


okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.) (link)
that's not wierd at all. i'm the same way. you really don't have to try hard at all to get the reputation. just do what you do. haha. it'll get around. maybe change the way you dress too if you don't already dress like it.


i'm NOT planning on giving "head" ANYTIME soon but i was just wondering, my friends were talking about how they gave their boyfriends head in their rooms, but they all "spat". did they like.. leave the room and go to the toilet?
wouldn't that look stupid? (link)
yeah, that would look really stupid.
just swallow. trust me, it's not that bad.


she's liked this boy for.. idk.. forever, but they've been talking FOREVER and then they finally started dating, and then before he went on vacation to Mexico, he told her that he would never leave her and that he loves her so much, but then when he came back, he broke up with her, which obviously means he didn't mean it.
but he's the ONLY guy she's cried about.. and now she sees him everyday
and i'm worried because she gets really upset and angry when she sees him..
and i don't know what to do..
i pretty much hide her, like when he walks passed, i step in front so that she can't see him, but I can't do that for much longer.. :[
what do i do?


p.s. she was talking to me the other day, and she was telling me "i'm scared i'm going to lose EVERYONE.. i've already lost my BEST friend.. and then she lost her mom.. and then my mom died.. and now I lost *nick" i'm scared. (link)
just take her out and have fun with her to get her mind off of things;
and try helping her to find another boy :]


do guys like belly button piercings or not? like are they to slutty or cute?

and i have a really good body (not to be conceited) but just saying that cause im not some big girl everyone tells me it would be cute on me but im wondering what guys think of it? (link)
trust me sweetie, any normal guy thinks it's hott.


Does anyone know a site that shows you how to put eyeliner on?
I know how to put it on I just suck at it so I wanna see exactly where and how to put it on, so it looks better.
Thanks! (link)
i found this website, but it looks kinda creepy.
http://www.ehow.com/how_157_apply-eyeliner.html
haha
if i were you i would just go to a clinique counter in the mall and ask them.


when you're laying out, whens the best hours to (besides when it's light out, duh) but I think i've heard that it's brighter at certain times of the day? what hours are these? (link)
i heard that it's between 12 and 2.

and i also heard that you tan better when it's cloudy out...which makes no sense to me, so idk if it's true; but that's what i heard haha.


14/f

my friend had called me today and told me that my boyfriend asked her a question.. and she said not to tell him... because i wasnt supposed to know about it, he asked her how many boyfriends have i had.. and i told her to ask him why does he wanna know, and he said "you told her didnt you." and i told her to say no. and then he said "i heard differently" and she asked him who was telling him this stuff, and he said "im not tellin` you." and the thing is i`m so mad about it.. because i told her to tell him i mainly had 4 because the other 3 we acted like we were friends. and then she said "what? do you not trust her?" and he said "i do trust her, im js makin` sure." ..... to me it seems like he doesnt trust me.. then, he also keeps assuming things, like my friend david .. he likes me but i didnt tell adrian that, he seems to go through my comments and stuff and then he clicked on his myspace and sent me his about me that said "MARY IS THE BEST AND SWEEETEST GIRL IN LIBERTY." and he said "he seems be really into you." and then i said "oh, well im not sure because i havent talked to him since the last day of school." and he js assumes that i think hes cute he says "ooo you think hes cute, hes your bestfriend, you think hes hot." i know hes playing around, but he does it TOO much. and i talked to him about that, but he says "i love you." ...... ughhh, i dont know what to do... please help me!!!!! i dont want this to get any worse. :[

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...why does it matter if he knows how many boyfriends you've had in the past? all that matters is that HE'S your boyfriend now. besides, this is stuff that YOU TWO should talking about, not him and your friend.


ok...so at my work there's a really nice guy that everyone likes and i just found out he has a crush on me. then the other day he started asking me out to the movies and stuff and i would absolutely love to except im 17 a nd hes 24 and i dont know if it would be worth the risk. OH by the way my dad is our boss. and the last thing i want is for him to find out im going out with one of his employees whos over 20. i mean i actually really do like him but, Should i risk it? (link)
you should definitely risk it.




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