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Break Up


Question Posted Wednesday August 29 2007, 10:34 pm

Okay i am just going to get straight to the point.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 2 months and we were always such a close couple never argue never fight nothing but the all of a sudden she would start getting mad at me for every little thing that i would do and wont let me hang out with my friends without getting mad nothing.

But there is this girl we will call her "3"

So 3 and I have been talking and she likes me and all and she says that it is stupid how My girlfriend treats me and that she would never treat me like that she understands that i love my girlfriend and everything so she is not mad that i wont break up with her. But the thing is I can't handle how my girlfriend is treating me. It has been going on for a few months and she says she isn't doing anything wrong but thats not the truth its like she don't see the error of her ways. And the question is How do i break up with her?

I have always told her i would never leave her no matter what and i will always love her. But now that she has started treating me like this i see things a bit differently. And we have such a strong bond with each other just im not happy anymore. How do i let her know i want to break up? please help me.


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plimptonlover answered Thursday August 30 2007, 12:50 pm:
Tell her that when you said you loved her and would never leave her you were talking to the girl that she used to be. Tell her like it is. That you feel like there isnt a bond between you two anymore and that you cant handle it. That you feel it is best for the both of you if you take a break from eachother. You've obviously given her a chances but be really nice about it.

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meeeelanie answered Thursday August 30 2007, 12:17 pm:
just tell her, be like if you really don't want to lose me, then stop acting the way you are. you should give her a chance to change her ways.

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Volleyball2150 answered Thursday August 30 2007, 11:46 am:
Maybe you should try to tell her exactly what she's doing, then softly tell her that your relationship isn't happy anymore and you will give her 1 last chance to change her attitude. If she doesn't change, then tell her that you're not happy anymore when you 2 hang out. Don't break up with her without telling her the reason, like "we need to break up" ya know?? you have to tell her the reason why you are breaking up with her. But Give her 1 more chance, but this time... tell her beforehand. So be like "See, this is exactly what you do to me and I am not happy around you anymore. I'll give you 1 chance to change and If you don't, I don't see the point in going out if I'm not happy with this relationship."

I wish you the best

-volleyball2150

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blackrose13 answered Thursday August 30 2007, 11:12 am:
well im very sorry about ur Gf.. anyway seems like its hard for you too to let go but you have to face it you have to go up to her and tell her that what she is doing to you is wronge give her one last chance to straighten up with you if she continues with you like this your gonna have to break it off tell her that if this is happening now then how would our future be you have to let her know that your not her lil pet for her to be getting mad at you like that for no reason you have to tell her that its wronge and if she cant staighten up then u have to break it off
hope i helped
bye**

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