Q: ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.

Q: This is pretty long.
First time asking a question here.
I’m 16/f
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months. He’s my first boyfriend. We started dating towards the end of 8th grade and we’re are now in the beginning of sophomore year in high school. Towards the beginning of our relationship he was the one who would always want to hang out and he always said really nice things like “you look beautiful”. And then a little later he would tell me he loved me a lot. I always said it back and I meant it. Then towards the middle of our relationship I was the one who always wanted to hang out and he always had plans with his friends who I used to be good friends with and liked at the time. Well back in middle school I didn’t have many friends that were girls and I was only friends with him and his friends. But then in freshman year I made friends that were girls and I am well aware that I became a little less laid back. But he also seemed a lot different to. His friends became jerks to me and he wouldn’t stand up for me. I wasn’t able to joke around with him anymore he took it all to seriously. He doesn‘t seem to care about anything anymore. Grades, holidays, rules, my interests, and all that kind of stuff. We used to talk online for hours. He is never online anymore. He used to call to hang out all the time. But I found myself being the one to call all the time. I could never see him being one to cheat. But I was always still paranoid. He doesn’t really get along with other girls. I still have a lot of guy friends and he never had a problem with it because he was sort of friends with them. I never hung out with them outside of school. So up to date now, he rarely ever says I’m beautiful anymore or say any of the other nice things that he used to. Unless he’s trying to get me to do something to him. Which I have never agreed to. I just don’t feel ready. Well, actually I don’t find myself wanting to. I don’t find myself as attracted to him as I was before. We don’t seem to have as much in common anymore. During the summer there were a few times where he wouldn’t call me for a whole week or even see me. I would call him but he doesn’t have a cell phone and he was never at his home. He started hanging out with his band a lot. Lately I found myself not being jealous or really being motivated to hang out. We don’t have the same sense of humor anymore. My friends are really fun and outgoing. And I find myself being more like them. Today we had to sit in the auditorium for an assembly. One of my friends that was a male was joking around with him and he got pissed. He has never accepted the fact that I think some of his friends are jerks. He usually doesn’t associate with my friends but today he was talking mean about my friend that was joking around with him and I didn’t think it was fair that I’m not aloud to say anything bad about his friends but it’s alright for him. There are a lot of things like that. Where it’s okay for him to do something in his eyes but then he gets pissed when I do it. When ever we have an argument I’m never aloud to be the mad one. He always makes it about himself. If we’re hanging out and he does or says something that upsets me (which has been happening a lot recently) I just kind of move away from him and just sit there. I would just like for once to not be the one who talks first or apologizes first. He always turns it into some sort of game to see who talks first. It’s always me. If I get angry he makes it about himself and then gets mad at me. Sometimes he curses at me in argument. I told him I don’t like that. I don’t have a problem with cursing at all. But when it’s directed towards me from him in an angry tone. It’s kind of scary. He’s only made me cry once. Well only once in front of him. But he’s made me cry before like after a phone conversation or something. It takes a lot to make me cry. He doesn’t listen to my problems and whenever he does his answers are always to just yell at the person I have a problem with. I don’t think that’s always the best way to handle things. I’ve found my taste in music getting less picky. He loves metal/grunge. I like it too and I grew up with it. But I also like other things and for some reason I can’t even talk to him about that because I know how he acts about that. He will just sit there and tell me how much he hates that band and make me feel stupid for even having the slightest bit of interest in that band. I’ve told him all of this stuff and he doesn’t have much of a response he just makes it about himself. So this is getting pretty long. I guess I'm just venting but I just thought I’d let you know where I’m coming from. I’m not really sure what I’m asking here. But the thought of breaking up has been racing through my mind a lot recently. But the thing is, I can’t imagine being the one to do that. He’s my first boyfriend, I love his family, and I don’t know how he would react at all. Once bringing that up in conversation to your boyfriend I can’t imagine it ever going back to normal. Also we have lunch together and sometimes he doesn’t sit with me which is okay, he has friends too, but I can’t imagine how awkward that would be. We also have art class together. I know those would be horrible reasons not to break up if I’m unhappy. It’s just something that’s been on my mind. My best friend and her boyfriend have been going through a lot trouble in their 2 year relationship and I think that, that might have gotten me thinking about my own relationship. Can anyone tell me what you think and if you have any idea something I could say to him about any of this.

Q: AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.

So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm not ugly, but I don't know how to look at myself/what to see in myself from the side. I don't know what guys think of me.

How can I better the chance of this working out? =( Thanks so much in advance.

Q: i'm a guy. 15 years old.

i have never had a girlfriend before. i have asked someone out before but got turned down. im 99% sure its not my looks (i dont look that bad at all), and its not the people i hang out with (i guess you could say i chill with the "cool people" or something) but girls just dont seem to fall for me.

theres this girl i really like in my art class, and we talk to eachother for a few mins almost every day. im pretty shy when it comes to girls so she always starts the convos. there are always theese awkward silences when we're talking that last for like 15 secs. im pretty sure im gonna ask for her number tomorrow at school, but how should i ask her? and if i get her #, how should i ask her out to the movies (like texting or calling)? and when should i ask her (after tomorrow we have a 4 day weekend)?

if she turns me down its going to be really weird and awkward between us since we have the same class together for the rest of the year.

thanks

Q: Hi my name is alyssa and i like this guy who was my friends Ex and i dont no if it will get between our friendship and then the friends Ex and i flirt but he hasnt asked me out yet and hes single

Q: Okay i am just going to get straight to the point.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 2 months and we were always such a close couple never argue never fight nothing but the all of a sudden she would start getting mad at me for every little thing that i would do and wont let me hang out with my friends without getting mad nothing.

But there is this girl we will call her "3"

So 3 and I have been talking and she likes me and all and she says that it is stupid how My girlfriend treats me and that she would never treat me like that she understands that i love my girlfriend and everything so she is not mad that i wont break up with her. But the thing is I can't handle how my girlfriend is treating me. It has been going on for a few months and she says she isn't doing anything wrong but thats not the truth its like she don't see the error of her ways. And the question is How do i break up with her?

I have always told her i would never leave her no matter what and i will always love her. But now that she has started treating me like this i see things a bit differently. And we have such a strong bond with each other just im not happy anymore. How do i let her know i want to break up? please help me.

Q: for about a week now, i haven't been able to eat as much as i normally do. i usually have a normal portion of breakfast lunch and dinner but in the past week i havent been able to eat anything but a couple bites and i feel like im going to be sick. is there something wrong with me? i've tried eating more but then i just feel really sick all day long. i've been pretty stressed out the past few days but this eating thing started a couple days before that. im getting nervous because i feel light headed and ive already lost a couple pounds. im 5' 2'' and about 100 lbs if that helps w/ anything

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