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ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.
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First of all, I love you.
Second of all, there are so many guys like that out there and there's not much you can do about it except just keep doing your thing and respecting girls. When you're the one with all the dates, I'm your guy friends will start to realize how wrong they've been.
Something you could say is "And saying stuff like that is the reason you never will even get a girl." Whenever one of your guy friends says something like that, just shake your head and roll your eyes. They'll get the point that you don't think it's funny and they'll most likely stop doing it around you.
In the end, you can't stop your friends from saying such moronic things. But maybe by being the good guy and setting an example for them, you might be able to get the message across.
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Girls absolutely posotively love that. Wow this proves that there is a actual real guy out there that is actually right. I dont think that there really is a way that you can talk to him about it. I mean guys will be guys and they will do that no matter what. If you do talk to them about it they will say you are trippin or something like that (idk) Just say," yo hey dude quit messin have some respect for dem ladies" i have no idea just something like that and if he is ur friend he will be ok with that
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Well Im really glad i was able to help out in something. If you need anything else dont hesitate to contact me, and if you have any friends like you, feel free to holler lol =]
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God, if only every guy was just like you. I can't believe there are actually MEN like you out there anymore. With your insight, it shouldn't be hard to find a girl. Girls want to hear that they're beautiful, not "hot". I'd advice you to simply not associate yourself with those kind of people, because i'm pretty sure any girl that knows him assumes you're the same way. Hang out with others like you, or the one's people consider "geeks", or "gay", just because they view women as actual beings. What you look for is what you get, and i can guarantee that you'll end up with one of the few women left with morals who respects herself and is respected, and who was considered "different" in her teen years herself. I just hope there's more of you out there for me =].
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Oh my gosh! Wow.
You're definitely the kind of guy that.. pretty much all guys should look up to. I'd personally like to say thanks so much for being one of the rare gentleman left. :)
Most girls don't like these kind of guys, obviously, and being a perve isn't attractive (let's exclude some of the 'easy skanks').
While I'm not sure of how he'll react, I really think you should just flat out say "Dude, that's really rude." It sounds incredibly lame, but I don't really know what would get the idea through to her. "She's not a peice of meat." might work. :P
Basically, ask him why he has to say crap like that. Let him know about how girls like sensitive guys, and how most girls would probably choose a guy like you over a perve.
I'm not sure this has helped your problem specifically, but I hope it helps in some way, and I hope you find your answer, becuase you're simply awesome! :D
XOXOKAT<3
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your a real man. and not many are brave enough to say what you just did. im a girl, and it bugs the crap out of me when me and my friends are walking across the street and guys yell something out the window, honk or whatever. we are humans too, and you can see that.
you should tell you friends "not to be mindless and actually think about what theyre saying, how idiotic and desperate it sounds." good luck!! and thanks for posting
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We need more guys like you. It's terrible when you don't even know a person [guy or girl] and just see them as an object. This person could be amazing or change your life, y'know? I definatly understand what you're saying because I'm around it and it really sucks and it's rude and disrespectful. You should say to your friend about how that girl is a human, not a sex object. She has morals, and feelings, and probably everything you think about her isn't really how this girl may be. Maybe you wouldn't say it "like a girl" but I hope you get my message. And I hope this helped some :]
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dude you are awesome. I feel the same way. here's the thing. unforunetly alot of other guys are demoralizing when it comes to women. eventually they'll mature and unfortunetly theres not much you can do about it. but there is good news. your like a commodity. girls love a guy who genuine cares about a girl and will listen to her. So even if these guys are being a pain in the ass you know that your a genuine guy. so yea keep on keepin on. Hope this helped:)
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Oh sighs, to be sixteen.
The goodness is a lot of guys will grow out that. The bad news is some wont.
In the meantime, just go ahead and be harsh. What they are saying is pretty harsh. So just be friendly, but blunt "Man, that is so not cool." "Shove it." "Yeah well you'll never get within a mile of a decent girl with that attitude."
The best thing you can do is simply not laugh and not encourage it. It's okay to tell people they are being jerks when they are being jerks.
A little bit of objectification is fine. People's apperances are often a reflection of how they want people to percieve them and there are women who say plenty of things like that as well. So you don't have to go about telling your friend that he is a bad, bad pers on for these comments, he isn't, he is just being a bit of jerk. Tell him it isn't cool.
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Well..you gotta let him know that wat he says about girls, well you don't like it and you want him to stop talking like that around you. That is disrespectful though, and he shouldn't even say that whether around you or not.. but yeah, just kinda let him know that you don't appreciate him talking like that and if he really respects you and the way you are, he'd stop it... well, i know it's not much but i hope i helped... =)
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