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my boyfriend seems lik` he doesnt trust me
14/f
my friend had called me today and told me that my boyfriend asked her a question.. and she said not to tell him... because i wasnt supposed to know about it, he asked her how many boyfriends have i had.. and i told her to ask him why does he wanna know, and he said "you told her didnt you." and i told her to say no. and then he said "i heard differently" and she asked him who was telling him this stuff, and he said "im not tellin` you." and the thing is i`m so mad about it.. because i told her to tell him i mainly had 4 because the other 3 we acted like we were friends. and then she said "what? do you not trust her?" and he said "i do trust her, im js makin` sure." ..... to me it seems like he doesnt trust me.. then, he also keeps assuming things, like my friend david .. he likes me but i didnt tell adrian that, he seems to go through my comments and stuff and then he clicked on his myspace and sent me his about me that said "MARY IS THE BEST AND SWEEETEST GIRL IN LIBERTY." and he said "he seems be really into you." and then i said "oh, well im not sure because i havent talked to him since the last day of school." and he js assumes that i think hes cute he says "ooo you think hes cute, hes your bestfriend, you think hes hot." i know hes playing around, but he does it TOO much. and i talked to him about that, but he says "i love you." ...... ughhh, i dont know what to do... please help me!!!!! i dont want this to get any worse. :[
<3 mary
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Obviously, your boyfriend likes you a lot. He's afraid of losing you to another guy, so he's looking for assurance that you really like him. If you do really like him, and want him to trust you, then by all means be honest and up front with him about everything. People always find out if you don't tell the truth. Make sure he knows that even though you've had other boyfriends, and other guys may be interested in you, that HE'S the one you want to be with.
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First things first, your boyfriend should come to you if he wants to know anything about you. People can give false facts, and that could lead into something bigger. Talking is a big part in a relationship, and trust. If there isn't any communication, what is there? He needs to come to you if he has any questions about you, not your best friend. Anyway. just let him know that if you really liked that kid you would be with david, not him. David's feelings for you is a stupid little crush, and if you really wanted it you would be with David. Tell him to knock it off, it seems like he doesn't trust you, like you would go and hook up with David if you had the chance. Let him know that your feelings are with him, and that not even a stupid little crush could hurt it. Hope I helped Mary, just tell him to grow up.
-Jess<3
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...why does it matter if he knows how many boyfriends you've had in the past? all that matters is that HE'S your boyfriend now. besides, this is stuff that YOU TWO should talking about, not him and your friend.
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