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i have this new friend "mary" that ive just started hanging out with. she has a bf, but the other day she told one of her friends that she likes MY bf, and that she wished she'd met him before he started going out with me. so that girl told my bf about it, and my bf told me. (he said don't worry, he doesn't like her). but now, whenever mary invites me to do stuff, she says "why don't you bring your bf?" and my bf is like "why dont you hang out with mary more?" so i asked mary if it was true that she likes my bf, and she said "nooo! i have a bf!" i was really starting to like this girl, but now im wondering, is she just being my friend so she can get to my bf?
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If you feel uncomfortable then don't hang out with her. You have that choice. The only time you should hang out with her with your boyfriend is if her boyfriend is there too, so there is no way she could scam on yours. I wouldn't start a huge cat fight over this, it's not big deal. You have the right to do what you want with this "Mary". Just make sure you make the right choice that won't affect much.
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Hope I helped.
-Jess
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my boyfriend flirts with other girls a lot. sometimes he does it in person, but mostly over myspace. he even flirts with girls who have bf's, saying stuff like "damn your boyfriend's lucky!" im really kind of offended and hurt by this because im jealous, and sometimes it makes me rethink my relationship with him... i dont know if it means hes not happy with me or doesnt take me seriously, or if he just wants to get a reaction out of these girls..likes them, etc. :[ i guess what im asking is, how can i talk to him about it or explain how i feel about the whole thing? (link)
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Your boyfriend is just extremely flirtatious. Confront him about it and tell him how you feel. I would definetely rethink your relationship. Now i'm not telling you to go break up with right away but things like that can lead into cheating. Just ask him what's his problem and why he feels the need to flirt with other girls when he has you. Tell him he needs to make a decision, them or you and ask him what he feels and just talk it out.
If you need anything else, drop something in my inbox.
Hope I helped.
-Jess
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i used a tampon for the first time today, and i'm not sure everything was quite right. i could feel it, but only when i was thinking about it, so its possible i was just freaking myself out. well, i went to the bathroom, and it came out a little and hurt, so i took it out. was it just not in far enough, or what? (link)
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At first when I started using a tampon it was all psychological because it was my first time and I wasn't used to it and I knew it was there. You may have not put it in far enough, which is normal. You can usually feel it when your sitting down, just make sure to go in a little deeper next time. Once you use tampons alot you won't notice it anymore so no worries.
Hope I Helped.
-Jess
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one of my best friends has become obsessed with being popular. unfortunately, the popular kids dont even like her. so she just follows them around and tries to look like shes with them. sometimes one of them will ask her to go to the movies or something, but only because they need a ride there. then when they get there they ignore her or ditch her. then she sends them messages like "why wont you be my friend? am i not popular enough for you?" shes making a fool of herself and im really embarrassed for her. i wish i could say something to her, but what would i say? or is it better to just let her figure it out on her own? (link)
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I understand how you feel. One of my friends tried following me and my friends around because I was more "in" with the popular crowd, I tried to include her but she tried too hard and that made my other friends uncomfortable. Tell her straight out that she is trying to hard, and getting friends come natural and if it is meant for her to be friends with them then it will happen, if not she has others.
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when you're laying out, whens the best hours to (besides when it's light out, duh) but I think i've heard that it's brighter at certain times of the day? what hours are these? (link)
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The highest sun radiation times are between 10 - 4. That is when it is the highest, make sure to wear sun tanning oil or you'll get burnt. Those are the times I go out between and I'm already tanned.
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okeyyyy. so i have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends, but he just had his one year anniversary with his girlfriend. and i know they're serious and whatnot, but he still said that if things went badly with them, he'd deffinitely go out with me. and that made me really happy, and i reallyreally like him. i have so much fun when i'm with him. and basically, he had me at hello.
and there's this other boy, single, cute, i have fun with him, starttttting to like him, but he's not like the other guy. i know i'd have a better chance with this guy, but still, i'm not sure what i should do.
i'm not sure if i should wait around for the guy who i really really like.
or take my chances with the other guy? (link)
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Don't wait around. If your friend is in a serious relationship and happy, you wouldn't want to mess up his happiness. Take chances with the other guy, turns out he could be just as better as the other. You only live once and you can't be waiting around for somebody. So take chances, and make your happiness first because it seems like your guy friend already has is.
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-Jess
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my friend had called me today and told me that my boyfriend asked her a question.. and she said not to tell him... because i wasnt supposed to know about it, he asked her how many boyfriends have i had.. and i told her to ask him why does he wanna know, and he said "you told her didnt you." and i told her to say no. and then he said "i heard differently" and she asked him who was telling him this stuff, and he said "im not tellin` you." and the thing is i`m so mad about it.. because i told her to tell him i mainly had 4 because the other 3 we acted like we were friends. and then she said "what? do you not trust her?" and he said "i do trust her, im js makin` sure." ..... to me it seems like he doesnt trust me.. then, he also keeps assuming things, like my friend david .. he likes me but i didnt tell adrian that, he seems to go through my comments and stuff and then he clicked on his myspace and sent me his about me that said "MARY IS THE BEST AND SWEEETEST GIRL IN LIBERTY." and he said "he seems be really into you." and then i said "oh, well im not sure because i havent talked to him since the last day of school." and he js assumes that i think hes cute he says "ooo you think hes cute, hes your bestfriend, you think hes hot." i know hes playing around, but he does it TOO much. and i talked to him about that, but he says "i love you." ...... ughhh, i dont know what to do... please help me!!!!! i dont want this to get any worse. :[
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First things first, your boyfriend should come to you if he wants to know anything about you. People can give false facts, and that could lead into something bigger. Talking is a big part in a relationship, and trust. If there isn't any communication, what is there? He needs to come to you if he has any questions about you, not your best friend. Anyway. just let him know that if you really liked that kid you would be with david, not him. David's feelings for you is a stupid little crush, and if you really wanted it you would be with David. Tell him to knock it off, it seems like he doesn't trust you, like you would go and hook up with David if you had the chance. Let him know that your feelings are with him, and that not even a stupid little crush could hurt it. Hope I helped Mary, just tell him to grow up.
-Jess
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