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Question Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:39 pm

okeyyyy. so i have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends, but he just had his one year anniversary with his girlfriend. and i know they're serious and whatnot, but he still said that if things went badly with them, he'd deffinitely go out with me. and that made me really happy, and i reallyreally like him. i have so much fun when i'm with him. and basically, he had me at hello.
and there's this other boy, single, cute, i have fun with him, starttttting to like him, but he's not like the other guy. i know i'd have a better chance with this guy, but still, i'm not sure what i should do.
i'm not sure if i should wait around for the guy who i really really like.
or take my chances with the other guy?


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Jeanne answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 7:10 pm:
Take your chances on the other guy. Waiting around for someone who is taken will just make you miserable. Move on and have fun with the guys who are available. Maybe in the future things will work out with the first guy, but right now he's off limits.

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orphans answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:58 pm:
wow, i can definetly relate to your problem. their one year anniversery is a special thing, so they are obviously serious. and although he says he would go out with you, why keep yourself from having love to wait? you should go out with the other guy. remember, if things dont work out, your friend will still be there.

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JRivs009 answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:54 pm:
Don't wait around. If your friend is in a serious relationship and happy, you wouldn't want to mess up his happiness. Take chances with the other guy, turns out he could be just as better as the other. You only live once and you can't be waiting around for somebody. So take chances, and make your happiness first because it seems like your guy friend already has is.

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-Jess<3

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DefyingOctober answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:51 pm:
well if the you originally liked is still taken....
then instead of waiting, go with the other guy.
plus,guys go crazy over a girl they cant have

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