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is she trying to steal my bf?
i have this new friend "mary" that ive just started hanging out with. she has a bf, but the other day she told one of her friends that she likes MY bf, and that she wished she'd met him before he started going out with me. so that girl told my bf about it, and my bf told me. (he said don't worry, he doesn't like her). but now, whenever mary invites me to do stuff, she says "why don't you bring your bf?" and my bf is like "why dont you hang out with mary more?" so i asked mary if it was true that she likes my bf, and she said "nooo! i have a bf!" i was really starting to like this girl, but now im wondering, is she just being my friend so she can get to my bf?
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i think she is.You need to talk to your boyfreind all sweet and tell him that you dont want to lose him and stuff.As for mary i think you shouldnt hang with her anymore,itll only bring drama.She likes your boyfreind and if you and your guy ever happen to fight i think shell go to him right away.Stop hanging out with her little by little and when she asks to hang out tell her "sorry im going out with MY guy"
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you just need to straight up tell her "look i heard you said to someone you liked my boyfriend (dont mention names its not nice (: ) and i just want you to know that now i think of it, i feel as though it just so happen could be true.. so im asking you if thats the case" she'll most likely deny it but kind of get her feeling alittle threatened that way she wont want to bring up your man or anything..
jsut be careful and dont give them any type of opportunity to end up alone together, around eachother, dont give eachothers phone #'s or any type of screen name cuase that can lead to something taking off.
**but heaven for bid.. something happens and they do like eachother.. then just remind her that she can have your sloppy seconds, and he can date someone who sort of man hops.. (basically goes from one guy to the next)
goodddd luckkk (:
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If you feel uncomfortable then don't hang out with her. You have that choice. The only time you should hang out with her with your boyfriend is if her boyfriend is there too, so there is no way she could scam on yours. I wouldn't start a huge cat fight over this, it's not big deal. You have the right to do what you want with this "Mary". Just make sure you make the right choice that won't affect much.
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Hope I helped.
-Jess<3
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maybe not steal him, but like she wants to like see him & flirt with him. i doubt that she could steal him from you if he doesnt like her. good luck ♥ corey.
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