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Ok this is kind of complicated. I am 13/f and all my friends have had 5+ boyfriends. I havent. I really like this one guy (lets call him James) and we flirt alot but hes also a close friend. I care for him so much. Well lately this month I have had about 4 guys ask me out. The problem is I DONT like them this way. My friends and other people are getting angry that im turning them all down but I feel as if if I go out with them im just lying to myself and not giving them what they deserve. They are all nice guys but I only like James. My friends are saying im being stupid and letting the chance to finnally have a boyfriend slip away. I have told them before that I wanted one but I want to share some sort of connection with the guy first. My friends all say its just a guy and I should just for the status but I dont know. Should I just forget about James and give these guys a chance? I have no idea... (link)
I think you should give these guys a chance,if it doesn't work out then ask james out.good luck!


i know alot of people that get drunk on the weekend. for some reason i just really want to try it. is this like bad? i mean i dont think drinking is that bad.. it's not like smoking pot or anything. and i wouldn't get so wasted that i'd endanger myself. what do you think? (link)
I think that you can drink but at your house,don't drive until an hour after you drink,and don't drink to get drunk.


Is it alright to become what you realized who you really were? like for example, before i didnt know i was a gothic/emo type person. i dont often show emotions,i dont smile,i hav a dark personality,and i always wear dark clothing so when i studied about my habits i realized i was a gothic type person so i decided to express who i really was but the problem is i didnt realize that before and now that i know and became who i really am im just wondering if it's ok. i dont want to be like a poser or a wannabe i just realized it. so is it ok? (link)
I think you should find out more about what you think you are then if you are actually like that person you can go around saying your a gothic/emo.


Ok my friend Susanna (who is thin) lives with her mom. Her mom decided to make soup chicken noodle soup to take over to her one of her two granddaughters who is sick. So she asked Susanna to taste a teaspoon of the soup and the noodles. Susanna said "Mom no noodles" Her mother replied "You are not going to gain weight from a few noodles" Susanna left to go answer her phone and then came back and said "I wasnt thinking about weight" Her mom said "But I know you you watch what you eat" Susanna said "But mom I never gain weight" Her mother replied "Absolutely you never gain" Susanna asked her friends after she told them the story "Is my mom saying I gain weight if I dont watch what I eat" And her friends said "No your mom isnt saying that, what your mom is saying is she is agreeing with you that you never gain weight, but she knows you watch what you eat" MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH SUSANNAS FRIENDS?
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Yes I agree with susannas friends,they are correct,susannas mom was not trying to say that if she doesn't watch her food she will gain wait.


ok i work at a big supermarket that sells like everything, and ive been working there for over a year. Well all of a sudden ive become considered "hot" and guys seem to show a lot of intrest in me. Especially guys from a certain department. The thing is that ive heard they're having a bet to see who can get with me first, and three guys have asked me out from this department in the last month, when theres like tops 10 guys in there. It makes me worried cause im not a girl who will just go out with all these guys and its kind of annoying how they think they can take advantage of me. How can i really find a great guy at work and not think that their in on a bet or something? and what do u think about those guys from the department? (link)
You should get all the guy workers together and ask them questions,see which one knows more about you,which ever one knew more about you is the guy that you should date.


Okay. So I sweat really, really badly. Even when I'm not doing anything, just sitting around in school. I have this gross disgusting sweatmarks by 1st period and it's so nasty!!! It makes me feel really, really uncomfortable. I use deoderant (Ban) and everything...what can I do?? (link)
I would sign up for the swim team then tell people that your shirt got wet.




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