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Should I just give up? Go out with them...
Ok this is kind of complicated. I am 13/f and all my friends have had 5+ boyfriends. I havent. I really like this one guy (lets call him James) and we flirt alot but hes also a close friend. I care for him so much. Well lately this month I have had about 4 guys ask me out. The problem is I DONT like them this way. My friends and other people are getting angry that im turning them all down but I feel as if if I go out with them im just lying to myself and not giving them what they deserve. They are all nice guys but I only like James. My friends are saying im being stupid and letting the chance to finnally have a boyfriend slip away. I have told them before that I wanted one but I want to share some sort of connection with the guy first. My friends all say its just a guy and I should just for the status but I dont know. Should I just forget about James and give these guys a chance? I have no idea...
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i like you you know what you want and you go after it thats great but give one of them a try or youll kick yourself latter trust me if my freind wouldnt give me the advice im givin you i wouldnt be in love now
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Don't ever go out with someone you don't have feelings for, that's dumb and you won't be just lying to yourself, you'll be lying to the guy too.
When you turn guys down, tell them that you appreciate it but you don't want to lose their friendship and you don't feel about them that way. If your friends bug you about it, tell them that they shouldn't tell you how to feel.
And you 15, for god's sake. You have tons of time to gets boyfriends and get that "status". Do whatever you want.
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I think you should give these guys a chance,if it doesn't work out then ask james out.good luck!
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no. don't forget about james, forget about those guys. you dont have to make yourself do ANYTHING that you're uncertain about, and especially being pushed into by friends. chances are, those guys only like you for your looks because they've never met you, and they haven't gotten to know you. james is someone you can trust to know you and it seems like you feel "right" when you are with him. your friends are trying to help you, but theyre putting wrong ideas into your mind. your friends don't value passion much, unlike you. it was right of you to turn down the other guys. don't rush anything and always go with what feels right. hope i helped! sabrina
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