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i'm worried about my friend
she's liked this boy for.. idk.. forever, but they've been talking FOREVER and then they finally started dating, and then before he went on vacation to Mexico, he told her that he would never leave her and that he loves her so much, but then when he came back, he broke up with her, which obviously means he didn't mean it.
but he's the ONLY guy she's cried about.. and now she sees him everyday
and i'm worried because she gets really upset and angry when she sees him..
and i don't know what to do..
i pretty much hide her, like when he walks passed, i step in front so that she can't see him, but I can't do that for much longer.. :[
what do i do?
p.s. she was talking to me the other day, and she was telling me "i'm scared i'm going to lose EVERYONE.. i've already lost my BEST friend.. and then she lost her mom.. and then my mom died.. and now I lost *nick" i'm scared.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Tell your friend that you love her very much and that you don't want to see her continue to put herself out there with someone who clearly doesn't understand how special she is. Tell her that, no matter what, you'll support her regardless of what decision she makes, but it's difficult for you to see her in such an unhealthy relationship.
Then...listen to her without interrupting her and don't judge anything that she says.
It's highly likely that your friend wants to leave but is very attached to this guy. It's going to take some time.
After you have this conversation with her, DO NOT INTERFERE because it's really none of your business unless she asks you for help or advice.
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just take her out and have fun with her to get her mind off of things;
and try helping her to find another boy :]
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All you can do is give her moral support. She will eventually get over it. Just tell her that there's other guys and that things will get better. Always remember things happen for a reason, And she shouldnt stress over that one boy. Also tell her thatt you are there and she wont lose you.
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